{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6889fedbbe8bca0ca288454a/69149a44830e2623bfc30a01?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Late Diagnosis Club: How Amy's Autism Discovery Ended Her Good-Girl Era","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/6889fedbbe8bca0ca288454a/1762957654902-01e63d6a-6ca6-4889-bdcc-f8e32e4c4751.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>In this meeting of The Late Diagnosis Club, Dr Angela Kingdon welcomes Amy Permann, a writer and Substack creator who discovered she’s Autistic in her 50s after decades of burnout, people-pleasing, and perfectionism.</p><p><br></p><p>Together, Angela and Amy discuss self-diagnosis, trusting intuition, unlearning pressure, and why self-acceptance is a radical act of care.</p><p><br></p><p>🪑 Attendees</p><p>Chair: Dr Angela Kingdon — Author, community-builder, and Autistic advocate</p><p>Guest: Amy Permann — Autistic writer and creator of <em>Seeking Authenticity</em></p><p>You: The Listener!</p><p><br></p><p>🗒️ Meeting Agenda</p><ul><li>Opening remarks from the Chair</li><li>Member introduction: Amy’s journey from “good girl” to self-advocate</li><li>Discussion: Misdiagnosis, boundaries, and self-trust</li><li>Key learnings from the meeting</li><li>Club announcements🧾 Minutes from the Meeting</li></ul><p><br></p><p>1️⃣ Opening Remarks</p><p>Angela opens by asking: <em>What happens when your entire life is built around expectations that were never yours?</em></p><p>She welcomes Amy as a club member who’s learning to unlearn—redefining success, self-care, and what it means to live authentically.</p><p><br></p><p>2️⃣ Member Introduction: Amy’s Story</p><p>After years of therapy and being the “good daughter,” Amy learned she was Autistic — not broken, not oversensitive.</p><p>Her diagnosis followed her niece’s, sparking a journey through online communities, self-assessment, and finally, a validating experience.</p><p><br></p><p>3️⃣ Discussion Highlights</p><ul><li>Parentified and People-Pleasing: How early responsibility shaped Amy’s self-image.</li><li>The Good Girl Mask: Why pressure isn’t a motivator — and why saying no is survival.</li><li>Trusting Your Own Intuition: Unlearning the habit of assuming others know best.</li><li>Medical Gaslighting &amp; Boundaries: Why autistic women often stop seeking care — and how Amy’s learning to ask questions again.</li><li>Living Authentically: From checklist living to joyful presence — finding beauty in small moments, cats, and nature.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>4️⃣ Key Learnings</p><ul><li>You can’t heal by pleasing everyone.</li><li>Autistic women deserve support that trusts their self-knowledge.</li><li>Self-diagnosis and formal diagnosis are equally valid paths to clarity.</li><li>Living authentically means honouring your timing, your needs, and your truth.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>📣 Club Announcements</p><p>🎧 <em>The Late Diagnosis Club</em> is available on <a href=\"https://open.spotify.com/show/0TXhqtffSfmJrGm5zHANCQ?si=90e3cdf219fe43eb\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Spotify</a>, <a href=\"https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-late-diagnosis-club/id1847627224\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Apple Podcasts</a>, and all major platforms.</p><p>💬 Join our online meetups and community at <a href=\"https://latediagnosis.club\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">latediagnosis.club</a>.</p><p>📌 Check the <a href=\"https://www.autisticculturepodcast.com/t/noticeboard\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">LDC Notice Board</a> for Member Contributions</p><p>💜 There is a small charge — but no one is turned away for lack of funds.</p><p><br></p><p>🌈 Celebrate autistic voices with early access, ad-free listening, and our full archive at <a href=\"http://autisticcultureplus.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">AutisticCulturePlus.com</a></p><p>🌐 Visit<a href=\"http://www.autisticculturepodcast.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> www.autisticculturepodcast.com</a></p><p>📲 Follow us on Instagram:<a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/autisticculturepodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> @autisticculturepodcast</a></p>","author_name":"Autistic Culture Institute"}