{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6884be8a3781311f9174ddcc/6a5e3a7d19fcc7b0d02ab1bf?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"National Sisters Day | Sisters, Slagging and One Live Revelation #180","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/6884be8a3781311f9174ddcc/1784563092844-44b3ab6e-594c-493a-b94b-5b5698327b55.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>Ahead of National Sisters Day on Sunday 2 August, Laura hands the mic to the one guest who has known her longest - her younger sister Rachel, making her podcast debut. What follows is less an interview than a lifetime of shared history: the smear tests they were both booked in for that morning, Laura's abandoned marathon training, the running mishap Rachel has never been allowed to live down, and the commentary only a sister can give.</p><p><br></p><p>Then, halfway through, Laura mentions something she assumed Rachel already knew - that their dad wasn't there when she was born. He was at home with the other two. Rachel had no idea. What happens next is the reason this one is worth listening to: Laura calls their mother into the studio, live, to confirm it.</p><p><br></p><p>From there it's the full archive — the crooked teeth and the orthodontist bill that nearly cost their parents the house, the green gabardine Laura convinced her was school uniform, growing up around a mother working night shifts as a midwife, and the football trials Rachel was told she'd have been sent to if she'd been a boy. Underneath the slagging is the thing sisters rarely say out loud, and by the end they both say it.</p><p><br></p><p>If you have a sister, this is one to send her before Sunday.</p><p><br></p><h2>🔑Key Points</h2><p><br></p><p><strong>Some family history only surfaces by accident</strong></p><p>Rachel had never been told her father missed her birth — it came out mid-conversation, not through any big reveal.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Ask the person who was actually there</strong></p><p>Rather than leave it hanging, Laura brought their mother into the room to confirm the story first-hand.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Sisters keep the receipts</strong></p><p>Years on, the teeth, the gabardine and the running stories are all still admissible evidence.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Childhood teasing lands differently in hindsight</strong></p><p>The stories that were mortifying at the time are the ones they now tell most fondly.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Growing up in an older sister's shadow shapes you</strong></p><p>Hand-me-downs, comparisons and a very particular sense of humour come with the territory.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Girls were quietly steered away from sport</strong></p><p>Rachel was told that if she'd been a boy she'd have been sent for trials — a throwaway line that stayed with her.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>A parent's shift work sets the tone of a house</strong></p><p>Their mother working nights as a midwife shaped how the siblings behaved, argued and looked after each other.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Slagging can be its own love language</strong></p><p>As they put it themselves, it was mostly slagging — sprinkled with a lot of love.</p><p><br></p><h2>📚Resources</h2><p><br></p><p><a href=\"https://www2.hse.ie/conditions/cervical-screening/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>CervicalCheck</strong></a></p><p>Ireland's free cervical screening programme</p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"https://adhdireland.ie/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>ADHD Ireland</strong></a></p><p>Support and information on adult ADHD</p><p><br></p><h2>⏱️Timestamps</h2><p><br></p><p>01:00 Why this one — National Sisters Day, and Rachel's debut</p><p>02:10 Both booked in for smear tests on the same morning</p><p>04:05 Laura's abandoned marathon training — and Rachel's running mishap</p><p>11:23 \"Dad wasn't even there for your birth\" — Rachel finds out</p><p>12:02 Laura calls their mother into the studio to confirm it</p><p>15:14 A female version of Rod Stewart: the crooked-teeth years</p><p>16:49 The gabardine that wasn't school uniform</p><p>19:45 Mark's first day at school — and Laura stepping in</p><p>24:40 \"If you'd been a boy, you'd have been sent to trials\"</p><p>27:00 What having a sister teaches you about conflict</p><p>34:13 Slagging, sprinkled with a lot of love</p>","author_name":"Laura Dowling"}