{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6878552cb93bd5454d9d0de2/69ce0354057b5949959830e9?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Exposure Therapy in a Public Bathroom","description":"<p>In this episode of <em>Breaking the Rules</em>, we record from an unusual location — <strong>the bathroom floor of a public restroom</strong> — as we explore an increasingly popular social media trend: <strong>“clean girl culture.”</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Across platforms like TikTok and Instagram, the clean girl aesthetic promotes a polished, minimalist lifestyle — natural makeup, tidy wardrobes, “clean” eating, and curated routines that appear effortless and healthy.</p><p><br></p><p>But when does a healthy routine become <strong>rigidity, anxiety, or compulsive behavior</strong>?</p><p><br></p><p>In this conversation we unpack how trends like clean girl culture can blur the line between <strong>wellbeing and preoccupation</strong>, and how certain aspects of the aesthetic can overlap with <strong>OCD patterns</strong>, particularly around contamination, checking, perfectionism, and the need for control.</p><p><br></p><p>We also explore the broader question clinicians and individuals often face: <strong>how do we know when something has gone too far?</strong></p><p><br></p><p>In this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>What “clean girl culture” is and why it’s trending on social media</li><li>The appeal of curated lifestyles and polished aesthetics</li><li>When healthy habits start becoming rigid or anxiety-driven</li><li>Parallels with orthorexia and other wellness trends</li><li>How social media trends can reinforce perfectionism and control</li><li>When checking, reassurance seeking, and contamination fears creep in</li><li>How compulsive behaviours can sometimes hide behind socially rewarded habits</li><li>The importance of flexibility, connection, and values when evaluating lifestyle choices</li><li>Questions clinicians can ask when assessing whether a habit has become unhealthy</li><li><br></li></ul><p>Ultimately, this episode isn’t about criticising trends — it’s about <strong>helping people reflect on the “why” behind their behaviours</strong> and recognizing when something that started as self-care begins to shrink a person’s life instead of expanding it.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>🔖 Chapters</strong></p><p>00:00 Recording From a Public Bathroom</p><p>01:30 Using Location as an Exposure Exercise</p><p>03:00 Introducing Clean Girl Culture</p><p>05:00 The Appeal of Polished Aesthetics</p><p>07:00 When Wellness Trends Go Too Far</p><p>09:00 Orthorexia and the Pursuit of Health</p><p>11:00 Perfectionism, Checking &amp; Social Media</p><p>13:00 How OCD Can Hide Behind Trends</p><p>14:30 When Habits Start Shrinking Your Life</p><p>16:00 Values, Flexibility &amp; Mental Health</p><p>17:30 Questions to Ask Yourself or Clients</p>","author_name":"Dr Celin Gelgec and Dr Victoria Miller"}