{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/686179585670d86508a60c98/6a02050892e9663a6f914fa9?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"The ultimate revenge: The psychological power of being unbothered","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/686179585670d86508a60c98/1778516211606-3fb379c9-f2a2-4e30-bfc1-4ddb08ff09a9.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>🩷 Love the show? Join the <a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Patreon</a>!</p><p>📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href=\"https://payhip.com/b/HMZam\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href=\"https://mybook.to/AmRLBu\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Amazon</a> or get a <a href=\"https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href=\"https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">here</a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Your compulsion to argue, get the last word, or make someone \"pay\" for what they did to you is a projection. You think, \"If I were in their shoes, I would've never done that.\"</p><p><br></p><p>Well you're not in their janky Crocs.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, I'll discuss:</p><ul><li>Why people want to trigger you to begin with</li><li>How to spot energy vultures</li><li>How to pull an uno reverse on them</li><li>Why being unbothered is the best form of revenge</li><li>Why reacting to an energy vulture is dangerous</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Timestamps:</p><p>0:00 Intro</p><p>2:49 Why people want to trigger you</p><p>6:08 A textbook example of an energy vulture</p><p>12:37 The psychological power of being unbothered</p><p>15:58 How to be unbothered</p><p>20:50 The power of ambiguity</p><p><br></p><p>If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps</p><p>__________</p><p><br></p><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href=\"https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href=\"https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul>","author_name":"Neeki Motabar"}