{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/686179585670d86508a60c98/69d424aaf44b357ce923e4ee?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Your focus on healing is silently holding you back","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/686179585670d86508a60c98/1775509931390-401c8396-3180-4086-9069-7433154fb7f4.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>🩷 Love the show? Join the <a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Patreon</a>!</p><p>📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of <em>How to Hack the Patriarchy </em><a href=\"https://payhip.com/b/HMZam\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">here</a><em>, </em>shipped directly from me.</p><p>You can also purchase on <a href=\"https://mybook.to/AmRLBu\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Amazon</a> or get a <a href=\"https://payhip.com/howtohackthepatriarchy\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">PDF or EPUB file</a>.</p><p>Free preview available <a href=\"https://payhip.com/baddestbinthebldg\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">here</a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Healing is great. It's an act of self-love and self-care. However, healing won't prevent you from ending up in the same situation that hurt you.</p><p><br></p><p>In fact, it's a way many women internalize the external abuse they've encountered, and think they're broken.</p><p><br></p><p>People don't treat you better based on how healed you are, they treat you based on what you tolerate and what you believe you deserve. And as women, we've been groomed to tolerate a lot of crap. </p><p><br></p><p>There's only one way to unlearn this grooming, and healing won't get you there.</p><p><br></p><p>Timestamps:</p><p>0:00 Intro</p><p>2:15 Why you're superstitious, even if you don't think so</p><p>8:06 The hidden agenda behind \"healing\"</p><p>14:52 You're not broken, but this type of person is</p><p>18:40 If healing isn't the answer, what is?</p><p><br></p><p>If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps</p><p><br></p><p>__________</p><p><br></p><p>🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.</p><p>__________</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href=\"https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on<a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to<a href=\"https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li></ul><p><br></p>","author_name":"Neeki Motabar"}