{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/686179585670d86508a60c98/68c8440e666ba430d6d1ade8?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Girly law of power #26: Stop being so available","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/686179585670d86508a60c98/1757954480115-2be20226-149f-4f1f-ab28-d02c208c0c11.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>We've been bamboozled into thinking that the more we're present and the more we prove ourselves, the more people will respect us. This is a load of crap. The truth is that the more people see you, the less they notice you. They'll take you for granted and respect you less. In this episode, we'll discuss:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>The most valuable form of giving (that you're probably doing too much of)</li><li>Why we've been conditioned to think that more presence = more respect </li><li>How strategic absence relates to supply &amp; demand, and how you can use this to your advantage</li><li>How to use absence, fantasy, and mystery to increase respect</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p><br></p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><p><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href=\"https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href=\"https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href=\"https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p>","author_name":"Neeki Motabar"}