{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/686179585670d86508a60c98/68b749c7b4b4b9b3d29e90c1?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Girly law of power #25: Treat excuses as data, not truth","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/686179585670d86508a60c98/1756841573962-ae3c505f-af68-42e6-aa23-4ee0ae39b27e.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>\"People never do something just once\" - Robert Greene</p><p><br></p><p>There's no such thing as an isolated incident, because people's actions are always part of a pattern of behaviour. However, the patriarchy made us believe the complete opposite, because accepting excuses keeps power where it is. The patriarchy is based on repetition: people repeat the same behaviours, institutions repeat the same patterns, cultures repeat the same stories.</p><p><br></p><p>The thing is, excuses are data, they reveal so much info!!! They're breadcrumbs people leave behind because they're not careful in covering their tracks...</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, we'll discuss:</p><ul><li>The reason why no one does something just once</li><li>A TEXTBOOK example of this (Chr*s Brown)</li><li>How accepting excuses creates a false reality</li><li>How this ties into people pleasing &amp; other ways women have been conditioned</li><li>Common excuses used in relationships + the workplace, and the data you can gather from them</li></ul><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p><br></p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</li><li><a href=\"https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</li><li><a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</li><li>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Patreon</a></li><li>💌 Subscribe to <a href=\"https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</li><li>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href=\"https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</li></ul>","author_name":"Neeki Motabar"}