{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/686179585670d86508a60c98/68753888f8babe38ae665a3b?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Girly law of power #22: Use elicitation to bypass gatekeepers & egos","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/686179585670d86508a60c98/1752511478168-a0fd331e-7734-4666-8c74-fb90288e1a7b.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>This one's crazy because we'll be discussing how to use an FBI-backed technique to get past the gatekeepers and the egos controlling the patriarchy. Because when we really boil it down, the patriarchy is just a bunch of insecure dudes who've institutionalized gatekeeping.</p><p><br></p><p>We'll discuss:</p><ul><li>Why we can't simply ask for things outright</li><li>The mindset that keeps us stuck in limbo, asking for permission &amp; waiting for opportunities</li><li>The art of elicitation and how to apply 5 of its techniques (there are 13 in total but 5 that are perfectly suited for our purposes)</li><li>How to elicit the answers we need without making the person defensive or suspicious</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Btw here's <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/chasehughesofficial/?hl=en\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Chase Hughes</a>, the former military chief and expert on elicitation</p><p><br></p><p>✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.</p><p>Love, Neeki xo</p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>: @baddestbinthebldg</p><p><a href=\"https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&amp;_r=1\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> @baddest.b.in.the.bldg</p><p><a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm9LdGqsvsNOwG90mN4SEUw\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com</p><p>🔐 Unlock bonus episodes &amp; join our private community on <a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/c/BaddestBitchintheBuilding\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Patreon</a></p><p>💌 Subscribe to <a href=\"https://thebadddestb-inthebldg.kit.com/b6fc55a0f4\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays</p><p>💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop <a href=\"https://www.cheekbonebeauty.com/NEEKI20\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Cheekbone Beauty</a> and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off</p>","author_name":"Neeki Motabar"}