In this episode of Yes to I Do, host Lydia Wakefield is joined by co-hosts Louisa, Meg and Maggie for a lively (and slightly controversial) discussion all about wedding favours.
Recorded in Rolo, one of Coton House Farm’s cosy preparation suites, the team dive into the big question: are wedding favours worth it? From personalised messages and scratch cards to drinks tokens and keyrings, no option is left undiscussed.
With honest opinions, practical venue insight and plenty of laughter, this episode helps couples decide whether favours are a meaningful touch, a practical addition - or an unnecessary expense.
Key Takeaways
Favours aren’t essential.
While some couples love including them, others feel they’re not a must-have. If budget is tight, this may be an area you can rethink.
Practical favours work best.
If guests can use it – like a drinks token or edible treat - it’s less likely to be left behind.
Drinks tokens over bar tabs.
Tokens help control budget, avoid awkward over-spending and ensure everyone gets the same opportunity to enjoy a drink.
Scratch cards are a fun interactive option.
They create a moment at the table and can even be adapted so each table has a winner.
Personalised messages feel meaningful.
Handwritten notes or thoughtful keepsakes can be incredibly special - but be prepared for the time commitment.
Edible favours need planning.
Always check allergies and ensure ingredients are clearly labelled to avoid last-minute removal by catering teams.
Keyrings divide opinion.
They’re cost-effective and look lovely on the day - but they’re also one of the most commonly left-behind favours.
Whatever you choose, do it for you.
Favours are personal. There will always be some left behind, so choose something you genuinely love.
Key Moments
“Favours shouldn’t feel like a waste of money - choose something people will actually use.”
“Everyone loves a free drink.”
“If you’re doing edible favours, check allergies first.”
“You can’t make 100% of people happy - so make yourselves happy.”
“Don’t let our opinion put you off your keyrings!”
About Coton House Farm
Nestled in the Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive luxury wedding barn venue offering couples a relaxed yet refined setting for their big day. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor ceremony spaces and a dedicated coordination team, the venue supports couples through every detail - from table styling to bar tabs and everything in between.
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