In this episode of Yes to I Do, host Lydia Wakefield is joined by Louisa (wedding coordinator) and Alex, one of Coton House Farm’s 2025 brides, who returns to share what her wedding day was really like. Alex talks through her August 2025 Monday wedding (yes, there was a little rain!), her bright-colour floral theme, how she built her guest list, and the suppliers and entertainment that made the day unforgettable, including live music and a magician. They also play Spend, Save, Skip, covering what Alex splashed out on, where she cut costs, and what she happily did without.
Key Takeaways
Alex arrived to some wet weather, but it quickly turned glorious, and she says the day was “perfect” from start to finish. The team also share how having a strong wet-weather plan (like moving confetti indoors) keeps everything flowing without panic.
Alex had around 74 day guests and roughly 120 evening guests. Her approach was about comfort; she didn’t want to walk down the aisle in front of people she barely knew, so the day was immediate family, close friends and key people, with the bigger party in the evening.
After visiting 7–8 venues, Alex walked down the path at Coton House Farm and instantly felt it was right. She loved the mix of indoor/outdoor options, the overnight accommodation (so no midnight taxis), and the ceremony barn, which reminded her of a little chapel. She also loved seeing the venue evolve during the two-year lead-up, which kept excitement high.
Alex deliberately chose several suppliers she’d discovered through the venue’s socials and open days, because people who already work there understand the light, the layout and what works. She still brought in a florist she’d used for years as her non-negotiable, because they knew her style.
Planning advice: book your registrar early, and breathe. Alex says the last couple of months can feel stressful as final payments land, but it’s all part of the process, try to enjoy it. Her practical must-do: once your venue is booked, book the registrar straight away because dates go quickly.
Best Moments
“It was a dream wedding day… from start to finish.”
“As soon as I started to walk down the path, I was like… oh, this is a bit of me.”
“You have to let it go… there’s nothing you can do about the weather.”
“He just fluttered round people… you didn’t even know he was there — then everyone’s laughing going ‘what?!’” (on the magician)
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About Coton House Farm
Set in the stunning Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive, luxury wedding barn venue designed for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable celebration. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor spaces, and flexible layouts, it offers a seamless experience from morning preparations in The Stables to a breathtaking ceremony and lively reception. Whether you choose an elegant indoor setting or a picturesque outdoor backdrop, Coton House Farm provides the perfect setting for your dream wedding, filled with romance and charm.
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