{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/67dc6ff6f48da98092d8a317/6993249e2a42aa7d9bb6f652?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Dating for Alignment, Not Attention","description":"<ul><li>Venus just moved into Pisces, and the timing feels intentional. In this solo episode, Chrissy shares her personal dating philosophy through the lens of her 12th house Pisces Venus, exploring karmic relationships, fate, boundaries, sex, and the difference between chemistry and nervous system safety.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>This is not a how-to guide. It is a reflection on navigating dating without a handbook. Through therapy, astrology, lived experience, and years of self inquiry, she has built a framework that feels aligned with who she actually is.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, she covers:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>Her dating app strategy to avoid burnout</li><li>Why she doesn’t believe in constant texting in the early stages</li><li>Her low-stakes move for meeting someone in real life</li><li>The 12 Date Rule</li><li>How she thinks about sex and emotional attachment</li><li>Luck versus alignment</li><li>Why the spark is not the goal</li></ul><p><br></p><p>For anyone dating, healing, questioning old patterns, or trying to build something that feels safe and expansive at the same time, this conversation offers an honest, grounded perspective.</p><p><br></p><p>Take what resonates. Leave the rest.</p><p><br></p><p>Stories referenced in this episode:</p><ul><li><a href=\"https://chrissyrutherford.com/fwdjoy/losing-my-virginity-awjcf\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Losing My Virginity Taught Me to Trust The Timing of My Life</em></a></li><li><a href=\"https://chrissyrutherford.com/fwdjoy/the-summer-i-slept-with-my-ex\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><em>The Summer I Slept with My Ex</em></a></li><li><a href=\"https://chrissyrutherford.com/fwdjoy/relationship-closing-ceremony\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><em>My Boyfriend and I Had A Closing Ceremnoy for Our Relationship</em></a></li><li><a href=\"https://chrissyrutherford.com/fwdjoy/what-keeps-situationship-from-becoming-a-relationship\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><em>What Keeps A Situationship From Turning into A Relationship</em></a></li></ul>","author_name":"christina rutherford"}