{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/67d887ff72a4bcf57c3423cc/67d888072dc3c43482da5c06?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Stranger Danger When Abroad, Should You Be Worried?","description":"<p>In this episode, Clare talks about the importance of being open-minded enough to make friends with strangers when you move country – including those from different backgrounds or lives from yours. She shares tips to move past our instinctive “stranger danger” and connect more freely. Drawing on her own moves – from the UK to Africa, Asia, and the USA – Clare shows how cultural differences can become bridges rather than barriers.</p><p>Clare also launches her new Facebook Group – <a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/groups/1331868441590356/posts/1331868478257019/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Moving Countries 101 with Clare Kay</a> – a space focused on the cultural and emotional side of moving countries.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>KEY TAKEAWAYS</strong></p><ul><li>It is only natural to be drawn to people who you already have a connection with and resonate with.</li><li>Remember that other people see you as a stranger, in the same way you see them as strangers.</li><li>Switching your thinking and considering yourself as the stranger reminds you to adopt a persona that makes others feel comfortable.</li><li>You get to choose how you come across when you meet someone for the first time.</li><li>Being warm and friendly with everyone makes it easier for them to connect with you.</li><li>Look at how the other person chooses to be and adapt a bit to meet them where they are. But still be yourself, authenticity matters.</li><li>Understand the merits others see in you and play up to them a little, while toning down the things you know put them off. This is part of being culturally sensitive.</li><li>Talk to people who share habits or common interests or concerns with you.</li><li>Be genuinely open minded and willing to try things, but don´t participate in anything that does not sit well with you.</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>BEST MOMENTS</strong></p><p><em>“Naturally, looking out we regard everyone around us as strangers, but we are also regarded as strangers when we step into a new country.”</em></p><p><em>“If I related to it as, “Oh, here we go again”. I diminished the promise of what that interaction could yield.”</em></p><p><em>“Different modes of behaviour work in different cultural settings.”</em></p><p><em>“No matter how much we acclimatize to a country, community will start with strangers.”</em></p><p><em>“I like any “in” that gets me to know the people locally.”</em></p><p><em>“You are breaking the ice, but it's on your terms, so you're not breaking a sweat.”</em></p><p><br></p><p><strong>ABOUT THE HOST</strong></p><p>Clare Kay is a seasoned global mover – with an international career in sales, customer service, personal development, and as a flight attendant. She has sold books and TV programs globally, taught English as a foreign language, and supported non-native speakers through proofreading. Her own global moves – from the UK to Zambia, China, Taiwan, Nigeria, and the USA – bring direct experience, and her global outlook has given her the growth and connections to support others in creating a life abroad. Through her podcast<strong> </strong><em>Moving Countries 101</em>, Clare inspires listeners with the confidence and courage to make their own move – and continues the cultural conversation in her Facebook Group. </p><p>Join the conversation by clicking this link -&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/groups/1331868441590356/posts/1331868478257019/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Moving Countries 101 with Clare Kay</a></p><p>It’s a space for global movers – people choosing to build lives abroad – to prepare emotionally, culturally, and practically, and to turn cultural differences into connections.</p><p><a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/groups/movingcountries101withclarekay/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.facebook.com/groups/movingcountries101withclarekay/</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.tiktok.com/@movingcountries101\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.tiktok.com/@movingcountries101</a></p><p><a href=\"http://www.linkedin.com/in/clarekay\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.linkedin.com/in/clarekay</a></p>","author_name":"Clare Kay"}