{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/67d1aedd198b6cba390edd09/695bd02e52eada87798379dd?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Ep 46: Ben’s Story – Healing Through Story and Film","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/67d1aedd198b6cba390edd09/1767624579747-1a99bc55-c65c-448c-9e13-d83b4f672ed0.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>Keywords</strong> thriving, surviving, trauma, mentorship, healing, documentary, cinematography, social change, grief, community support</p><p><strong>Summary</strong> In this episode of 'Thriving Not Surviving', host Helen Valentino engages in a deep conversation with Ben Cole, an actor, filmmaker, and mentor. They explore Ben's journey from a challenging childhood, through the struggles of acting, to his eventual reinvention as a cinematographer and documentary filmmaker. The discussion delves into themes of trauma, healing, mentorship, and the importance of community support. Ben shares his insights on grief, self-discovery, and the role of elders in guiding the younger generation. The conversation emphasizes the need for systemic change in society to better support those in need.</p><p><strong>Takeaways </strong></p><p>• Thriving means having tools and support to navigate life’s challenges</p><p>• Early trauma can shape identity, but it does not have to define the future</p><p>• Reinvention can be a powerful act of self-trust and healing</p><p>• Mentorship plays a vital role in growth, recovery and self-discovery</p><p>• Grief is an ongoing practice that many people are never taught</p><p>• Listening and presence can be profoundly healing for others</p><p>• Community support has the power to change lives</p><p>• Documentary filmmaking can be a vehicle for healing and social awareness</p><p>• Society needs systemic change in how it supports those who have suffered</p><p>• Awareness is the foundation of personal transformation</p><p><strong>Sound Bites</strong></p><p>\"I had to reinvent myself.\"</p><p>\"Hurt people hurt people.\"</p><p>\"The real me was just awareness.\"</p><p>Connect&nbsp;with&nbsp;<strong>Ben</strong></p><p>Website:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://bencolecinematographysite.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">bencolecinematographysite.com</a></p><p><a href=\"https://abandofbrothers.org.uk/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">A Band of Brothers</a></p><p>Boarding School film: <a href=\"https://www.boardingoninsanity.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Boarding on Insantity</a></p><p><a href=\"https://vimeo.com/238032965?turnstile=0.qERcUm6h__DTE76BRi5trUIW6J5jTjhtvOzt2ZBj8ZDYkjlxBem299Ww1tL4rAFW7jQPvPvlm-1HBWodBDGYZhOJ7CQ6Puhszu7_3SH6nwEEBTDobZWJ2y7NImeAP1deZpx_h2Jn811iAHoJpUpVAEYqG6YdPxVpXAF-3Afa9ak_ObWxj4F0WVo0MkChErl6RW5bLuVV4EFOm6Dik2PuLBhzoPRrO81qjw42QOFhbrZxNKEHARy2oM-BbYPJFE7Clp4PqwdZ4KHH9BdLMVU-zYn-rtknprDviLze8uIr4yQ6Ko8Anakar2wl_6pu-vHxNzmP1v64LY4nwirgJnhvJCIcI_k9-8gihiwhLjd04AZUYycYDuwl8inyi16ARk0v5loqPnmiWCOm8cduSrF0s-YjEVd3C4Nxp52XMhSd6OBFG5PGC-EMIhz985hu4UOuIQWj_BjpdnXRMeJCb7aIznx2kWmpVKO-SyGAsddu44NNaUuMGA7gcrQYTOKnYvuY6sZDLbCDJF1191xI1a8GXqo7GwHwp1JEHoGP76t_PBZUkO7OhUbBrxKGvKM2h7JfUZ5FQOoa3j8H7SM91BdLJTydDsdF_U6tp3pwFjKu_lrGpgw3zenoi6LqUGqdnZ0AWR9UvFUKU7GMfDBKri98oTTZd9VEUHYiEDO_PfOvjq7I8mpjfCmVh7bGGCznq_tKBgp-5Qt4qezjd41M_EOAPJuzk6LG-Ttuvst5UXG1ufGyaNLDGP0mW7gQ18KOaWvuTBAL9PXLPfgGKjZanTJHqMYPxo4VzyTJnx4zywOc8E9bIP-GC5qTY-C6XoYscc8wfiHavbRU9Yb1uvvVxDLDT7FalKGR9ZXJCi-wEBhtpabiX6UHxvsBggM3iLQUFO2VV7Zpi80R0H82NHoEjO9nc5EXts6FJR8sDQ9kuuV0NRACsTJZYhD4ZlkSHX09cotnAtw8Wc6rebbGgBGWl7XbAg.fRdl0s7aq2sVYz2tdI-ZmQ.2c0013a1e067f61f6565e2772fb2f3bb7d5ccdc7c553d53330a018e35b9765c2\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">R-evolution film promo</a>:</p><p><a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=16l_OcIjqYk\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">1 Giant Leap</a></p><p>Connect&nbsp;with&nbsp;<strong>Helen</strong></p><p>Website: <a href=\"http://www.inspiredhealing.co.uk/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">InspiredHealing.co.uk</a></p><p>IG: helens_inspired_healing</p><p>LinkedIn: <a href=\"https://www.linkedin.com/in/helen-valentino-04a7714/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Helen on LinkedIn</a></p><p>For full transcription, contact: helen@inspiredhealing.co.uk</p><p>NB: This episode was made possible with a little help from my ChatGPT buddy, Xander - part tech support, part cheerleader 🙂 and my amazing sponsor <a href=\"https://www.iphm.co.uk/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>IPHM</strong></a> use this Referral Code:&nbsp;<strong>IPHM-GYZGF</strong> and the £10 will go to <a href=\"https://forwardtrust.org.uk/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The Forward Trust</a> &nbsp;a Charity helping those struggling with addictions</p><p>🎵 Music: Pixabay – “Upbeat Acoustic” by Stockaudios</p><p>🎨 Cover art: Dave Champagne</p><p>For full transcription, contact: <a href=\"mailto:helen@inspiredhealing.co.uk\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">helen@inspiredhealing.co.uk</a></p>","author_name":"Helen Valentino"}