{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/673d85a7ed940338805562f5/69c1ffb01861d127d5e97797?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"(Re-Release) Outsmarting Personality Disorders with LMFT & Author Carla Litto","description":"<p><em>This episode originally aired on April 22, 2025.</em></p><p><br></p><p><strong><em>If you or someone you love is experiencing domestic violence, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or visit </em></strong><a href=\"https://www.thehotline.org/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong><em><u>www.thehotline.org</u></em></strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>-----</p><p><br></p><p><strong>In this powerful episode of <em>Bitch Is a Bad Word</em>, host Lindsay sits down with Licensed Marriage &amp; Family Therapist and author Carla Litto to unpack the psychology behind narcissistic and emotionally abusive relationships.</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Carla, author of <em>Outsmarting Egomaniacs: How to Respond to Narcissists and Master Manipulators</em>, explains how <strong>Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)</strong> and <strong>Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)</strong> can show up in intimate relationships — and what survivors can do to protect themselves.</p><p><br></p><p>With compassion and clinical expertise, Carla breaks down the red flags of <strong>manipulation</strong>, <strong>gaslighting</strong>, <strong>trauma bonding</strong>, and <strong>coercive control</strong>, offering actionable tools to help survivors <strong>regain clarity, confidence, and control</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p>🎙️ <em>In this episode, we cover:</em></p><ul><li>How BPD and NPD appear in <strong>toxic or abusive relationships</strong></li><li>Understanding <strong>emotional dysregulation</strong>, <strong>projection</strong>, and <strong>trauma bonding</strong></li><li>Practical ways to recognize and respond to <strong>manipulation and gaslighting</strong></li><li>Why survivors second-guess themselves — and how to rebuild self-trust</li><li>Key insights from <em>Outsmarting Egomaniacs</em> by Carla Litto</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Whether you're recovering from <strong>narcissistic abuse</strong> or supporting someone who is, this episode will give you the knowledge and power to move forward.</p><ul><li>#NarcissisticAbuse #EmotionalAbuseRecovery #BPDRelationships #NPD #Gaslighting #TraumaBonding #CoerciveControl #OutsmartingEgomaniacs #CarlaLitto #BitchIsABadWordPodcast</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Visit Carla's <a href=\"https://www.carlalittotherapy.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">website</a></p><p>Purchase Carla's book, <a href=\"https://www.amazon.com/Outsmarting-Egomaniacs-Respond-Narcissists-Manipulators/dp/1963827007/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=&amp;sr=\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Outsmarting Egomaniacs</em></a></p><p><br></p><p>If you or someone you know needs immediate help, please reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233</p>","author_name":"Lindsay Abernathy | Domestic Violence Survivor"}