{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/673d85a7ed940338805562f5/68a16f248f8e6e84617a047e?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"How to Spot the Hidden Signs of Financial and Emotional Abuse | Jared Mello","description":"<p>What if the person you love slowly takes away your freedom — not with fists, but with control over your money, your choices, and your self-worth?</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode of <em>Bitch Is A Bad Word</em>, Jared Melo shares his story of how emotional manipulation and financial control kept him trapped in a toxic relationship. From paychecks being taken, to credit ruined, to being told he was “crazy,” Jared walks us through the everyday red flags survivors often miss until it’s too late.</p><p><br></p><p>We unpack:</p><ul><li>How abusers control money to keep you stuck (“I’ll take care of the bills, don’t worry about it”)</li><li>Why financial abuse often doesn’t <em>look</em> like abuse at first</li><li>The shame and silence survivors feel when they can’t leave</li><li>The turning point when Jared realized this wasn’t “love,” it was control</li><li>How rebuilding self-trust and community helped him escape</li></ul><p><br></p><p>This episode is for anyone who has ever asked themselves:</p><ul><li><em>“Why can’t I leave if he doesn’t hit me?”</em></li><li><em>“Is it normal for my partner to take my paycheck?”</em></li><li><em>“Am I crazy, or is this actually abuse?”</em></li></ul><p><br></p><p><em>“signs of controlling partner”</em></p><p><em>“is it abuse if my husband controls the money”</em></p><p><em>“how do I leave a toxic marriage with no money”</em></p><p><em>“my wife controls everything I buy”</em></p><p><em>“financial abuse in marriage examples”</em></p><p><em>“how to tell if I’m being gaslit”</em></p><p><em>“emotional abuse signs in relationship”</em></p><p><br></p><p>If that’s you — you’re not alone. You’re not crazy. And there is a way out.</p><p><br></p><p>If you or someone you know needs immediate help, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.</p>","author_name":"Lindsay Abernathy | Domestic Violence Survivor"}