{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/672e31ae61e4ef810f426f96/6aa7014cc939da27954b3f6d?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"#94 – In My Thirties I Stopped Giving the Salon My Saturdays","description":"<p>This week, we're talking about Black hair and everything we went through to have it: the relaxer that burned and the beautician who said tell me when you feel it, the salon Saturdays that took the whole day, the big chop, sisterlocks, and the little boy who thinks moms are supposed to have hair. Also on the table: screenshot everything your boss tells you, the report nobody mentioned until it was due, the genie being a bad influence on Aladdin, and a photographer who says she loves our people but can't show you one of us. Whether you're still giving the salon your Saturdays, wondering if your loctician should have this much say, or just tired of explaining your hair to people who don't have to deal with it, this episode will feel like sitting with two friends who truly get it. New episodes every Wednesday. Follow the podcast everywhere you listen.</p><h2>Acast Show Notes</h2><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Two weeks without staff, a report nobody mentioned until it was due, and the whole commercial book of business</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Dropping the ball on purpose versus owning the part that was actually yours</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Screenshot everything: dated, filed by person, meeting minutes in a separate folder</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;When Jade leaves a job, the spirit already told her</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Everybody Hates Chris, the Chris Rock debate, and whether anybody remembers he was the zebra in Madagascar</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Happy Feet, the Prince soundtrack, and Robin Williams</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Nothing tops Aladdin, and the genie was a bad influence</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Vincenzo and villains who are geniuses until it's time to be geniuses</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Outdoor shoots available weekdays only, closed Monday through Thursday</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The Black photographer with five photos on her page and not one Black face</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Show me you know how to light us, and why Instagram is not a portfolio</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Dyeing it brown for fall, and the loctician who will not bleach Jocelyn's hair</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Your hair belongs to me now: why Jocelyn handed her head over to her loctician</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Jade's son said moms are supposed to have hair. Jade said it's in the trash</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The perm burn Jocelyn liked, the Malcolm X scene, and the perm Jade's father did that left a bald patch</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Why Jade cut it all off: the salon Saturday that never ended</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The Just For Me commercial was a silk press, and Jam, Sofree, and Blue Magic</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;No bedroom set at 39, the oil spot on the wall, and hiring somebody to clean</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The diced pepperoni incident and \"different strokes for different folks\"</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;I drink what the sign say, and PICU is not a thing</p><p><br></p><h2>Timestamps:</h2><p>00:00 A week on the water</p><p>01:00 Two weeks without my staff</p><p>02:00 PTO means prepare the others</p><p>03:00 The report nobody mentioned until it was due</p><p>05:15 The whole commercial book of business</p><p>06:30 Extending the vacation</p><p>08:00 Dropping the ball on purpose</p><p>10:00 The mistake that wasn't all mine</p><p>13:30 Screenshot everything</p><p>16:30 When I leave, I have a reason</p><p>17:00 Everybody Hates Chris, and so does one of us</p><p>18:30 Who was the zebra in Madagascar</p><p>20:45 Happy Feet and the Prince soundtrack</p><p>22:30 Nothing tops Aladdin</p><p>23:30 The genie was a bad influence</p><p>24:30 Vincenzo and villains who forget to be smart</p><p>31:30 Did Happy Feet have a villain</p><p>32:30 Outdoor shoots, weekdays only, closed Monday through Thursday</p><p>36:00 A photographer with no website</p><p>36:45 Five photos, all white women</p><p>39:00 Show me you know how to light us</p><p>39:30 Instagram is not a portfolio</p><p>41:30 Dyeing it brown for fall</p><p>42:15 Your hair belongs to me now</p><p>43:30 Why Jocelyn won't cut hers</p><p>44:30 Moms are supposed to have hair</p><p>45:30 I liked the burn</p><p>46:45 The Malcolm X scene</p><p>47:30 The perm my father did</p><p>49:30 Sick of my whole Saturday being gone</p><p>50:15 The Just For Me commercial was a silk press</p><p>51:15 Jam, Sofree, and Blue Magic</p><p>52:30 No bedroom set at 39</p><p>53:45 The oil spot on the wall</p><p>55:00 The only thing I wanna do is sit down</p><p>56:30 Merch and the Carolina blue hoodie</p><p>59:00 The diced pepperoni incident</p><p>1:04:00 I drink what the sign say</p><p>1:04:45 PICU is not a thing</p><p>1:06:15 Wrap up</p><p>Two lives. Two perspectives. One unfiltered conversation.</p><p>#AGirlsPerspective #VibeTribe #BlackHair</p>","author_name":"Sweetheart Creations LLC"}