{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/672e31ae61e4ef810f426f96/6a88bca749367c27e205ece9?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"#91 – One Sentence Ended Our Six Year Friendship","description":"<p>This week, we’re talking about adult friendships and the art of saying no, the friend who called Jocelyn’s graduation a family thing after six years, and the trauma bonds that fall apart the minute your life starts improving. Whether you’re navigating friends who disappear when it is time to celebrate you, people pleasing that has you saying yes when your spirit says no, or that one person who leaves you drained every single time, this episode will feel like sitting with two friends who truly get it. New episodes every Wednesday. Follow the podcast everywhere you listen.</p><p><br></p><h2>Acast Show Notes</h2><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The viral graduation TikTok, the oversleep excuse, and Jade’s instant verdict</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Jocelyn’s own graduation story and the friend of six years who called it a family thing</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The HR sendoff: wishing people well in their future endeavors</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Trauma bonds, better credit, and the friends who leave when you level up</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Erykah Badu vibes, Gemini energy, and the eccentric phase that got too expensive</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The Indiana nap shop and why the hate makes no sense</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Do not invite me to the wedding if I never make the cookouts, girls nights, or coffee breaks</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;David Banner’s grand skipping entrance</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Vibe Tribe shout outs and the Seoul2Screen reveal</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The parasailing request and the version of Jocelyn that retired in 2018</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The art of no, energy leeches, and pouring from an empty cup</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The year of no and frozen credit cards</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The mediocre nails incident</p><p>•&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Jocelyn’s ADHD medication update and a mental health check in</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><h2>Timestamps: </h2><p>00:00 Cappuccino or Americano, vetoed immediately </p><p>01:05 The graduation TikTok question </p><p>02:05 Jade’s instant verdict </p><p>03:20 The graduate posts her receipts </p><p>06:10 Jocelyn’s graduation and the family thing excuse </p><p>09:15 The HR sendoff </p><p>11:10 Trauma bonds and friends who leave when you level up </p><p>15:15 The cussing progress report </p><p>16:40 Erykah Badu vibes and peak Gemini behavior </p><p>20:55 Being eccentric is expensive </p><p>23:10 The Indiana nap shop </p><p>28:10 Do not invite me to the wedding if I miss the cookouts </p><p>29:55 Our algorithms are showing out </p><p>33:20 David Banner’s grand entrance </p><p>37:20 Vibe Tribe shout outs </p><p>39:50 K-dramas and the Seoul2Screen reveal </p><p>46:40 The parasailing story </p><p>49:20 Born selfish and thankful for it </p><p>51:20 The art of no </p><p>52:50 Energy leeches, the true definition </p><p>54:55 No to Jamaica, yes to bingo </p><p>56:30 You cannot pour from an empty cup </p><p>59:00 The year of no and frozen credit cards </p><p>60:55 Why is every logo gray now </p><p>63:45 The mediocre nails incident </p><p>67:05 The ADHD update </p><p>70:20 Wrap up and where to find us</p>","author_name":"Sweetheart Creations LLC"}