{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/66ed4a97c63b952f9ac375ff/6a7377fcaa557e62dcc28ccd?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"My big fat £40,000 joy first mistake","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/66ed4a97c63b952f9ac375ff/1785952146079-421cd365-37d7-464f-9b64-6a0ca0ff33b3.jpeg?height=200","description":"<h1>When the dream I had fought for became the dread I couldn't escape... and decision I dreaded unlocked the joy I'd been looking for all along.</h1><p><br></p><p>I finally opened the shop I'd wanted for a decade: A photography studio and pet boutique two minutes from my front door, in beautiful Southwest London. I signed a ten-year lease and invested £40,000 pounds in the business (most of which was spent on renovating the derelict space), and I named it 'Little &amp; Large' after my Great Dane and French bulldog. It truly was a dream come true.</p><p><br></p><p>But not even two years in, I was clear that this investment, this beautiful dream was actually a big mistake.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode (Joy First Decisions #3 and #4) I tell the whole story: the VAT I never understood, the freedom I lost, the guilt of realizing I'd built my own cage, and the decision I dreaded most which turned out to be the joy first decision in disguise. It's the one that led to Whyfinding®, to the work I actually love, to the next business which grew to six figures in eight months.</p><p><br></p><p>If you've ever hung onto something too long because quitting felt like failure, this one's for you.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode:</p><p>• How to tell whether a decision is rooted in joy or fear </p><p>• Why joy doesn't always look shiny (and often asks for discomfort first)</p><p>• What closing the shop made possible that I never could never have foreseen</p><p><br></p><p>Go deeper on Substack: joyfirstworld.substack.com</p><p><br></p><p>If this resonated, follow the show and leave a review - thank you! See you next time for Joy First Decision #5</p>","author_name":"J.Nichole Smith"}