{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/669b7caefbb02ee946751d7d/684d4186b903c43b041f37ec?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"#015 - ADULTING 101: Real Talk on Relationships, Lagos Hustle & Growing Up","description":"<p>🎙️ <strong>EPISODE 4 – ADULTING 101: Real Talk on Relationships, Lagos Hustle &amp; Growing Up</strong></p><p>In this deeply personal and hilarious episode of <em>That’s My Time</em>, I’m joined by three amazing guests who represent different parts of my journey:</p><ul><li><strong>Modupe Cole</strong> – my cousin, whom I haven’t seen in 18 years!</li><li><strong>Increase</strong> – my university classmate from our Civil Engineering days.</li><li><strong>Favour Nelson</strong> – a top productivity expert with gems for navigating life and work.</li></ul><p>Together, we dive into what no one really prepares you for — <strong>ADULTING.</strong> From choosing where to live (Kwara vs Lagos), to food struggles, navigating NYSC, dating in your 20s, and figuring out if work-life balance is even real — this episode is a raw and relatable look at growing up in Nigeria.</p><p>We talked about:</p><ul><li>The shock of responsibilities and managing life alone</li><li>Making important life decisions, including relationships and marriage</li><li>My cousin dating my close friend 😅</li><li>The painful lessons I learned in a past relationship</li><li>How many kids we each want 😂</li><li>Lagos traffic and housing madness</li><li>Modupe’s inspiring entrepreneurship journey with her crocheting business</li><li>If gospel artistes should charge for ministration</li><li>Our future plans, personal growth, and more</li></ul><p>It’s <strong>funny, emotional, honest, and full of life lessons</strong> you didn’t know you needed. Whether you're 18, 25, or 30+, you’ll find yourself in this episode.</p><p>📌 <strong>Timestamps:</strong></p><p> 0:00 – Intro</p><p> 2:00 – The struggles of adulting</p><p> 10:00 – Family, relationships &amp; unexpected confessions</p><p> 20:00 – NYSC, work-life chaos &amp; productivity</p><p> 35:00 – Entrepreneurship as a young Nigerian</p><p> 41:00 – Gospel music, controversy &amp; future plans</p><p> 47:00 – Outro &amp; final thoughts</p><p>💬 <strong>Drop a comment</strong> – What’s been your biggest shock about adulthood?</p><p> 📢 Don’t forget to <strong>like, subscribe</strong>, and turn on the notification bell for more real, raw and refreshing conversations!</p><p>📌 <strong>Follow us on Instagram for BTS &amp; more:</strong></p><p> @ThatsMyTimePodcast | @ToluAfilaka</p><p>#Adulting101 #NigerianPodcast #ModupeCole #LagosLife #That’sMyTime #WorkLifeBalance #FavourNelson #GospelArtistes #LifeTalk #CrochetBusiness #NYSC #Relationships #ToluAfilaka</p>","author_name":"TOLU AFILAKA"}