{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/669b7caefbb02ee946751d7d/6843fb831dd9d3b33fddde25?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"#014 - The SPEC Debate: What Do Men Really Want? (MEN'S MENTAL HEALTH SPECIAL) ","description":"<p>Welcome back to another explosive episode of That’s My Time Podcast with your host Tolu Afilaka and i have my amazing brothers — Increase, AYK, Awa Victor, Fulfillment, and Gini.</p><p><br></p><p>In honor of Men's Mental Health Awareness Month, we went all in: from relationship standards, cheating, ego, money, and masculinity, to how men really process emotions. You don’t want to miss this honest, funny, and at times, very raw conversation.</p><p><br></p><p>📍 Timestamps &amp; Topics Breakdown:</p><p>00:00 - Intro &amp; Welcome</p><p><br></p><p>02:00 - Should a Christian Man Have a Spec?</p><p><br></p><p>We debate the \"spec\" culture — what kind of women each of us actually like.</p><p><br></p><p>Gini drops his love for deep conversations.</p><p><br></p><p>Increase opens up about how his girlfriend wasn’t originally his \"spec\".</p><p><br></p><p>Fulfillment wants good English + pedigree.</p><p><br></p><p>Awa Victor and Gini clash with hilarious disagreements.</p><p><br></p><p>Fulfillment drops: \"What happens to the dumb babes?\"</p><p><br></p><p>Gini: \"I like to feel underrated and then get the babe.\"</p><p><br></p><p>20:00 - Hot Seat: Cheating, Forgiveness &amp; Loyalty</p><p><br></p><p>Fulfillment gets grilled on the hot seat!</p><p><br></p><p>Gini breaks down why your girlfriend shouldn't stop you from finding your wife 😮.</p><p><br></p><p>Tolu explains why cheating is never okay.</p><p><br></p><p>AYK declares: \"I don’t even have the capacity to cheat.\"</p><p><br></p><p>The panel explores the question: Should cheaters be forgiven?</p><p><br></p><p>Tolu shares his own real-life cheating temptation story.</p><p><br></p><p>Awa drops deep relationship wisdom.</p><p><br></p><p>40:00 - When The Lady Initiates Cheating</p><p><br></p><p>Awa Victor shares powerful wisdom on how men should handle cheating temptations.</p><p><br></p><p>Tolu reports his cheating experience to Ebuka Mic.</p><p><br></p><p>Should men give women money? What happens when a lady asks for wig money?</p><p><br></p><p>Fulfillment shares his story about dating a celebrity's daughter.</p><p><br></p><p>The crew discusses men’s ego, finances and how \"money makes love sweeter.\"</p><p><br></p><p>60:00 - Outro &amp; Final Gems</p><p><br></p><p>👉 LIKE | COMMENT | SUBSCRIBE | SHARE</p><p><br></p><p>This is one of the most REAL, UNSCRIPTED, and POWERFUL episodes on men’s struggles, relationships and navigating love in today’s world.</p><p><br></p><p>#MensMentalHealth #RelationshipPodcast #BlackMenTalk #ChristianDating #PodcastAfrica #ThatIsMyTimePodcast #MenTalkReal #ThinkLikeAMan #LoveAndEgo #CheatingCulture #MasculinityIn2025 #ViralPodcast #NigerianPodcast #DatingPodcast #ModernLove #HotSeatPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #ThatsMyTimePodcast #MensMentalHealth #MensMentalAwarenessMonth #ThinkLikeAMan #ChristianDating #RelationshipPodcast #BlackMenTalk #PodcastDrama #HotSeatPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #LoveAndMoney #ForgivingCheating #ModernMasculinity #AfricanPodcast #NigerianPodcast #MoneyMakesLoveSweeter #MenTalkReal #RealTalkPodcast #DatingAdviceForMen #ViralPodcast #PodcastClips #LoveAndEgo</p><p><br></p><p>femi lazarus, Bola Tinubu appointments 2025</p><p>NDIC new MD Oludare Sunday</p><p>University Governing Council reshuffle</p><p>Minimum wage increase Nigeria 2025</p><p>AMVCA 2025 winners</p><p>Davido &amp; Chioma wedding 2025 rumors (this one's always hot 🔥)</p><p>Wizkid new album 2025</p><p>BBNaija 2025 housemates</p><p>Super Eagles World Cup Qualifiers 2025</p><p>Victor Osimhen transfer news</p><p>AFCON 2025 qualifiers</p><p>EPL fixtures Nigeria time</p><p>TikTok Nigeria trends</p><p>Nigerian skit makers 2025</p><p>NaijaNoDeyCarryLast</p><p>Funny TikTok audios Nigeria 2025</p><p>Property prices in Lagos 2025</p><p>Lekki new estate projects 2025</p><p>How to start real estate business in Nigeria 2025</p><p>JAMB results 2025</p><p>WAEC 2025 answers (trust Nigerians 😅)</p><p>Scholarships for Nigerians 2025</p><p>Study visa Canada, UK, USA 2025</p>","author_name":"TOLU AFILAKA"}