{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/66867b52796f61254a8e9594/67f537a159cf07f9c9df21e6?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Ep.67: Kinks, Fetishes, and Fisting Training with Alexander Cheves","description":"<p>Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at <a href=\"https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br></p><p>Can't Host Merch: <a href=\"https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/</a></p><p><br></p><p>In this raw and radically honest episode of <em>Can’t Host</em>, I’m joined by sex writer and activist Alexander Cheves—author of <em>My Love Is a Beast: Confessions</em>—to dive deep into the world of kink, fetish, and fisting. We explore the psychology behind bottoming anxiety, how to train for intense sexual experiences, and the sacred role kink can play in healing shame. From his evangelical upbringing to becoming a national voice for queer erotic liberation, Alexander opens up about sex work, substance use, and the fears many gay men carry around their bodies and desires. This is an unfiltered conversation about reclaiming pleasure, breaking taboos, and turning your kink into a path of self-love.</p><p><br></p><p>Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecrets</p><p><br></p><p>Join the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membership</p><p><br></p><p>ABOUT ALEX CHEVES</p><p><br></p><p>Alexander Cheves is a Berlin-based author and sex educator. He writes the \"Last Call\" sex and culture column for Out Magazine and is the author of \"My Love Is a Beast: Confessions,\" an erotic essay collection from Unbound Edition Press, and his next book will come out in the fall of 2026.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Website: http://alexcheves.com/</p><p>Instagram: @badalexcheves</p><p><br></p><p>EPISODES MENTIONED</p><p><br></p><p>Orgies, Sex Parties and the City: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/67065c2447b414d1544aa774</p><p>Safe Anal Sex Practices with Dr. Evan Goldstein: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/66867b5704b201dd3472a0d2</p><p><br></p><p>CONNECT WITH ME</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Instagram: <a href=\"https://instagram.com/georgelizos/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>Website: <a href=\"https://georgelizos.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>TikTok: <a href=\"https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>Facebook Group: <a href=\"http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>MY BOOKS</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠<a href=\"https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj</a></p><p>Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠<a href=\"https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf</a></p><p>Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠<a href=\"https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd</a></p><p>Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠<a href=\"https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr</a></p><p>Ancient Manifestation Secrets: <a href=\"https://2ly.link/1zCVg\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://2ly.link/1zCVg</a></p>","author_name":"George Lizos"}