When siblings fight, it can feel endless - the bickering, the shouting, the “that’s not fair,” the constant demand that you step in and decide who’s right.
In this episode, I explain why sibling rivalry is normal, why refereeing often makes things worse, and what actually helps children learn to resolve conflict themselves.
I am going to walk you through the real developmental reasons siblings clash, the skills they’re missing, and how stepping back (safely) gives them the practice they need to build frustration tolerance, negotiation, perspective‑taking and repair.
I will share three things that actually help, and the best part - you can start doing them right now.
This episode is a practical, hopeful guide to transforming sibling dynamics and giving your children the lifelong skills they’ll use in every relationship they ever have.
So take a seat, pour yourself a cuppa, and enjoy the conversation…
Highlights from this episode:
01:18 - Sibling rivalry is a training ground
05:48 - 3 things to remember
09:37 - Resist, resist, resist
12:10 - Neurodiversity
17:18 - Unite and conquer
21:21 - Give your kids a process
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