If your teenager’s exam results were not what you expected, your plans might be making some sudden changes. That’s ok, and this episode is for you.
Whether your child didn’t get the grades they hoped for, is suddenly unsure about university, or is facing a future that looks different from what they imagined, I will walk you through the five things I want you to do this week to help them move forward.
Disappointing results can trigger shock, anxiety and fear, because teenagers aren’t just losing a plan, they’re losing the version of themselves they thought they were becoming.
I show you how to name the loss, how to slow the decision‑making process so your teen isn’t making life choices in a state of distress, and how to help them build a new story that feels hopeful rather than catastrophic. I also give you the exact language to separate their identity from their grades, and the questions that help them lead the next step with confidence rather than panic.
If your teenager is hurting, overwhelmed or unsure what comes next, this episode will give you the guidance you need to support them in the weeks and months ahead.
So take a seat, pour yourself a cuppa, and enjoy the conversation…
Highlights from this episode:
00:50 - Grieving your imagined future
02:21 - How to acknowledge your child
05:35 - Help them write a new story
09:11 - Let them lead
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