Fear of failure is one of the most misunderstood challenges parents face, especially when you’re raising a bright, capable child who refuses to try anything unless success is guaranteed.
Today, I break down exactly why children avoid new experiences, quit the moment things get hard, melt down over mistakes, or insist “I can’t do it” before they’ve even begun.
I am going to give you 5 practical strategies you can start using today to build resilience, confidence and emotional regulation, without pushing too hard.
If your child avoids homework, quits activities, panics about getting things wrong, or compares themselves constantly to others, then I promise this episode will help you.
So take a seat, pour yourself a cuppa, and enjoy the conversation…
Highlights from this episode:
00:55 - A quick reminder
02:52 - What’s the worst that can happen?
07:46 - Model imperfection
11:30 - They are never doing it alone
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