{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6660d35439a32000124905fc/698c2c225fc77c9327cb088b?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"“I Want To Be That Person”: Showing Unselfish Love","description":"<p>Leann and Melissa review Brenè Brown’s concept of love vs. attachment as they discuss the true meanings of love, discuss Heavenly Father’s love for us, and how we can pour out that love for others.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Ponder Questions:</strong></p><p>Am I expecting something in return?</p><p>Is my love transactional?</p><p>Am I able to make space for someone else?</p><p>Am I putting my expectations onto other people?</p><p>Am I giving others grace?</p><p>Can I see things from a different perspective?</p><p>Am I having compassion for others?</p><p>Am I creating a loving environment?</p><p>Who needs my love?</p><p>What am I bringing to the table?</p><p>What is my impact?</p><p>Am I changing the way I think about others?</p><p>Am I making this about me and not others?</p><p>Am I allowing Christ to be my Master Teacher?</p><p>What am I grateful for?</p><p>Am I seeing His hand in my life?</p><p>Where is my heart right now?</p><p>Am I praying for help?</p><p>Am I leading by my example?</p><p>Am I willing to love those who may seem more difficult to love?&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Invitation:</strong></p><p>Ask yourself, “What are my motives, and how am I loving others?”</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>References:</strong></p><p><a href=\"https://brenebrown.com/book/atlas-of-the-heart/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience</em></a><em>,</em> Brenè Brown, pgs. 253</p><p><a href=\"https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/gospel-topics/love?lang=eng\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">“Love,”</a> Topics and Questions, <em>The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints</em></p><p><a href=\"https://www.deseretbook.com/product/P6027151.html?srsltid=AfmBOoowdjJVmoNWeqHgrkbSW9OQotho22jcSv46ijW_FKQQP8dHzrp8\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><em>The Law of Love in Action</em></a>, Steve Young, pgs. 1, 31-32</p><p><a href=\"https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/pgp/moses/1?lang=eng\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Moses 1</a>:39</p><p><a href=\"https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/2002/11/blessed-are-the-peacemakers?lang=eng\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">\"Blessed Are the Peacemakers,\"</a> Russell&nbsp; M. Nelson, <em>Ensign</em>, Nov. 2002, pg. 41</p><p><a href=\"https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2025/04/56tai?lang=eng\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">\"The Love of God,\"</a> Benjamin M. Z. Tai, April 2025 General Conference</p><p><a href=\"https://self-compassion.org/books-by-kristin-neff/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself,</em></a> Kristin Neff, Ph.D., pgs. 68-69</p><p><a href=\"https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/media/music/songs/if-the-savior-stood-beside-me?lang=eng\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">“If The Savior Stood Beside Me,”</a> Sally DeFord, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints Music Library&nbsp;</p><p><a href=\"https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/nt/john/15?lang=eng\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">John 15</a>:12</p><p><a href=\"https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/teachings-joseph-smith?lang=eng\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Joseph Smith</em></a>, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, pg. 517&nbsp;</p><p><a href=\"https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/2014/05/sunday-morning-session/love-the-essence-of-the-gospel?lang=eng\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">\"Love—the Essence of the Gospel,\"</a> Thomas S. Monson, <em>Ensign</em>, May 2014, pg. 91</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Connect With Us: awakenings@googlegroups.com</strong></p><p>If you have any comments, questions or suggestions, we would love to hear from you. You can also find us on <strong>Instagram </strong>at<strong> @awakeningspodcast</strong> where we share quotes, affirmations, questions and clips from that week’s episode throughout the week. You can also find us on <strong>YouTube</strong>.<a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLh0r5hkYIMni7s1GcP-PZJK_AGTHMjZoE\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> Ah-ha's, Awakenings, and Applications</a></p><p><br></p><p>We are grateful for our production team: Ben, Sydney, Kinzie, Lyndee, Analese, David and Bruce.</p>","author_name":"Leann and Melissa"}