{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/664df1ec94d1f4001242cd72/69d936d079a641a1f32aa929?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"what can we learn when we revisit couples therapy classics?","description":"<p>Have you heard of the Gottman Institute? The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is a wildly popular relationship book and it has plenty of fantastic insights. However, some of the research and case studies could use some updating. In this episode, we take a close look at conflict while keeping in mind the weight of emotional labor and the impacts of patriarchy.</p><p><br></p><p>Mentioned:</p><p><a href=\"https://bookshop.org/a/55904/9780553447712\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The Seven Principals for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman PhD</a></p><p><a href=\"https://microcosmpublishing.com/catalog/books/10889?srsltid=AfmBOoriVqJHlPs-KOc9wPQ7g6ERmfjT5SHzjy0vpsLZSpPM6fyotSAe\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The Autism Partner Handbook: How to Love an Autistic Person by Joe Biel, Dr. Faith G. Harper and Elly Blue</a></p><p><a href=\"https://microcosmpublishing.com/catalog/books/10468?srsltid=AfmBOoqVyBfx44fYen2kpqHqryNRltYqf2Y2mHFhk9Kkk5epqR_eFtlP\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The Autism Relationships Handbook: How to Thrive in Friendships, Dating, and Love by Joe Biel and Dr. Faith G. Harper</a></p><p>Study: </p><p>Check out the <a href=\"https://www.lightenlab.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.lightenlab.com/</a> </p><p><br></p><p>In this episode:</p><p>Relationship conflict patterns and Gottman's research</p><p>Gendered communication and systemic issues</p><p>Neurodivergence and emotional regulation in relationships</p><p><br></p><p>Get resources, ad-free episodes, and more at&nbsp;<a href=\"https://timetoleanpod.substack.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">timetoleanpod.substack.com</a></p><p><strong>Order&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://www.lauradanger.com/no-more-mediocre\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong><em>No More Mediocre: A Call To Reimagine Our Relationships And Demand More</em></strong></a></p><p>Follow Laura:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/thatdarnchat\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@thatdarnchat</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href=\"https://thatdarnchat.substack.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">thatdarnchat.substack.com</a></p><p>Follow Crystal:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/itscrystalbritt\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@itscrystalbritt</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href=\"https://itscrystalbritt.substack.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">itscrystalbritt.substack.com</a></p><p>Subscribe, rate, and share to help others find the show</p><p>If you or someone you know needs support:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.thehotline.org/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The National Domestic Violence Hotline</a>&nbsp;| 800-799-7233</p><p><br></p><p>Themes: relationship dynamics, conflict resolution, Gottman Institute, gender theory, neurodivergence, communication, mental load, emotional labor, systemic gender issues, relationship advice</p><p><br></p>","author_name":"Laura Danger and Crystal Britt"}