{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/664df1ec94d1f4001242cd72/6864b58dd9fe141218721fad?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"if i step back, let him “rise” to leadership, and comment HUBBY on this post, will my partner finally make his own damn list?","description":"<p>This week, we look at a viral influencer’s take on why men don’t step up at home. He's just one of many creators who exist in the genre of “relationship advice” whose content insidiously blames women for their partner’s lack of initiative. Apparently, the problem with a lack of effort isn't... the lack of effort... It's that you must be smothering his divine masculine spark.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Mentioned in this episode:</strong></p><p><a href=\"https://bookshop.org/a/55904/9781501189562\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Rage Becomes Her by Soraya Chemaly</a></p><p><a href=\"https://bookshop.org/a/55904/9780593577639\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">BoyMom by Ruth Whippman</a></p><p><a href=\"https://bookshop.org/a/55904/9781250876690\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Erased by Anna Malaika Tubbs</a></p><p><a href=\"https://bookshop.org/a/55904/9781551528915\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The Future Is Disabled by Leah Lakshmi Piepzna Samarasinha</a></p><p><a href=\"https://bookshop.org/a/55904/9781551527383\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Care Work by Leah Lakshmi Piepzna Samarasinha</a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Subscribe, rate, and follow us:</strong></p><p>@timetoleanpod | <a href=\"https://open.acast.com/networks/664d59c79d6f810012cb85dc/shows/664df1ec94d1f4001242cd72/episodes/timetoleanpod.substack.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">timetoleanpod.substack.com</a></p><p>@thatdarnchat | <a href=\"thatdarnchat.substack.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">thatdarnchat.substack.com</a></p><p>@itscrystalbritt | <a href=\"itscrystalbritt.substack.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">itscrystalbritt.substack.com</a></p><p>Preorder <a href=\"https://sites.prh.com/nomoremediocre?ref=PRH3CD38B382047&amp;aid=12713&amp;linkid=PRH3CD38B382047\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><em>No More Mediocre: A Call to Reimagine Our Relationships And Demand More</em></a></p><p><br></p><p>Need support? Visit <a href=\"thehotline.org\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">thehotline.org</a></p>","author_name":"Laura Danger and Crystal Britt"}