{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/664df1ec94d1f4001242cd72/67ae49a0b859f4e0dbc953c7?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"is dating dehumanizing?","description":"<p>Is there such a thing as \"The One?\" Is there such a thing as \"choosing well\" when it comes to a partner, or are we always looking to trade up to a \"better model?\" Laura and Crystal discuss a quote from Dean Spade's new book, \"Love in a F*cked Up World.\"</p><p><br></p><p>Resources discussed in this episode:</p><p><a href=\"https://bookshop.org/a/104586/9798888902554\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">We Grow the World Together</a></p><p><a href=\"https://bookshop.org/a/104586/9781506478258\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Becoming Kin</a></p><p><a href=\"https://bookshop.org/a/104586/9781849352604\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Emergent Strategies</a></p><p><a href=\"https://bookshop.org/a/104586/9781643756462\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Love in a F*cked Up World</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.pbs.org/pov/films/tribaljustice/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Tribal Justice on PBS</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.innovatingjustice.org/areas-of-focus/restorative-justice\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Restorative Justice</a></p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/timetoleanpod\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Join our Patreon!⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe!&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a><a href=\"https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>&nbsp;OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod</p><p><br></p><p>Follow Time to Lean on social media <a href=\"https://open.acast.com/networks/664d59c79d6f810012cb85dc/shows/664df1ec94d1f4001242cd72/episodes/instagram.com/timetoleanpod\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@timetoleanpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>Follow Laura on social media&nbsp;<a href=\"https://instagram.com/thatdarnchat\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatdarnchat⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>Follow Crystal on social media&nbsp;<a href=\"https://instagram.com/itscrystalbritt\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@itscrystalbritt⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.thehotline.org/get-help/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Domestic Violence Resources&nbsp;⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)</p>","author_name":"Laura Danger and Crystal Britt"}