{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/664df1ec94d1f4001242cd72/6759b66e5bd8609252076cfe?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"is it queer to like your wife?","description":"<p>You know the phrase \"Happy Wife, Happy Life?\" Well in this episode, Laura and Crystal discuss a refreshing take on this tired saying by creator @livunderthestairs. They discuss how it can be reframed more equitably, emphasizing shared responsibilities and emotional labor in relationships.</p><p><br></p><p>Mentioned on this episode:</p><p><a href=\"https://www.tiktok.com/@livunderthestairs/video/7440137779863981345\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Link to the original video!</a></p><p><a href=\"https://bookshop.org/a/104586/9781479804467\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The Tragedy of Heterosexuality</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/timetoleanpod\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Join our Patreon!⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Download resources and read more from Crystal and Laura </strong>⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠<a href=\"https://www.timetoleanpod.com/relationshiptools\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe!&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a><a href=\"https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>&nbsp;OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod</p><p>Follow Time to Lean on social media <a href=\"https://open.acast.com/networks/664d59c79d6f810012cb85dc/shows/664df1ec94d1f4001242cd72/episodes/instagram.com/timetoleanpod\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@timetoleanpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>Follow Laura on social media&nbsp;<a href=\"https://instagram.com/thatdarnchat\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatdarnchat⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>Follow Crystal on social media&nbsp;<a href=\"https://instagram.com/itscrystalbritt\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@itscrystalbritt⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.thehotline.org/get-help/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Domestic Violence Resources&nbsp;⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)</p>","author_name":"Laura Danger and Crystal Britt"}