{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/663109c2cff31b0012ae91dc/663de6d61e442e00122feca5?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"045: When stories are helpful delusions","description":"<p>Our jumping off point today was a video from <a href=\"https://youtu.be/sRLUfnefjrs?si=qNE2Zjf1f9th2d9g\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">YouTuber Caroline Winkler</a> about making friends as an adult. She instructs us to tell ourselves that when someone doesn't want to be your friend, it's always something practical in their life: they're too busy, they're about to move away, things like that. And it left us wondering: but what if it IS you? We've all met people we didn't like. What if you're a person someone doesn't like?</p><p><br></p><p>But hey&nbsp;– perhaps it's helpful to hold on to the delusion that it's never about you? What we call \"distribution\" is a painfully slow, ambiguous investment. Maybe we <em>need</em> some delusion to carry on when it feels like a slog? Maybe that's healthy? But then how will you know if it <em>is</em> in fact you?</p><p><br></p><p>We unpack more stories that might be going on when we can't seem to find friends or customers. Whether you're trying to make bookish friends at a gabba rave, or trying to find customers for your achingly cool new startup, this one's for you x</p>","author_name":"Tom Kerwin and Corissa Nunn"}