{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/66226b6a2f4034001161df9b/693c3244f3a6f9e20a1ffebb?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Episode 33: I'm So In Love I Want a Baby That Has Your Face","description":"<p>Welcome to HEART REACTS, an advice podcast for all of us trying to remain emotionally functional through the collapse of late capitalism.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/heart_reacts\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Heart Reacts now has an Instagram</a>! Follow the pod directly for faster updates and more relationship memes.</p><p><br></p><p>This week, we check in about \"chatfishing\" and cognitive dissonance around AI, and then we consider whether or not (and how) to parent inside the coupled norm.</p><p><br></p><p>Stuff We Talk About:</p><p><a href=\"https://hyperallergic.com/this-hanukkah-lets-bring-back-judith-menorahs/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><u>This Hanukkah, Let’s Bring Back Judith Menorahs</u></a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/oct/12/chatgpt-ed-into-bed-chatfishing-on-dating-apps\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><u>‘I realised I’d been ChatGPT-ed into bed’: how ‘Chatfishing’ made finding love on dating apps even weirder</u></a></p><p><a href=\"https://drive.google.com/file/d/1pDU96-nn5Q22vYazW9MkdE8N7ibCWctJ/view\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><u>Conversation on Workplace Trust with Sarah Mosseri</u></a></p><p><a href=\"https://inthesetimes.com/article/big-tech-the-ai-con-book-silicon-valley\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><u>Sarah: Interview with Emily Bender and Alex Hanna on The AI Con</u></a></p><p><a href=\"https://uk.bookshop.org/a/172/9780571399277\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><u>James Muldoon, Love Machines</u></a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/dec/07/adhd-autism-overdiagnosis-wes-streeting\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The right’s callous overdiagnosis bandwagon is rolling. Wes Streeting should not be on it</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.shutoutthelight.co.uk/iron-ladies\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Iron Ladies film</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.thewire.co.uk/in-writing/collateral-damage/against-the-grain-archiving-anarcho-punk\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><u>Against The Grain: Archiving anarcho-punk</u></a></p><p><a href=\"https://logicmag.io/land/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Logic(s) Magazine Issue 23: Land (with Craig's article!)</a></p><p><a href=\"https://newsocialist.org.uk/infamous-proposal/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Jules Joanne Gleeson: This Infamous Proposal</a></p><p>Sarah: <a href=\"https://dissentmagazine.org/article/family-planning/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Family Planning</a> (review essay)</p><p>Engels, <a href=\"https://www.marxists.org/archive/marx/works/1884/origin-family/index.htm\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">\"The Origin of the Family, Private Property and the State\" </a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.haymarketbooks.org/books/2610-solidarity-with-children\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Madeline Lane-McKinley, Solidarity with Children</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.versobooks.com/en-gb/products/1110-the-anti-social-family?srsltid=AfmBOoom5pc60WQuAahOX7hvUK7HYexSr5aJ5ZgrK1M0a5QHBNs5WQcV\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Michèle Barrett and Mary McIntosh, The Anti-Social Family</a></p><p><a href=\"https://hopkins1.edublogs.org/files/2010/10/Angela-Davis-yqtc68.pdf\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><u>Angela Davis: Women and Capitalism:Dialectics of Oppression and Liberation</u></a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.researchgate.net/publication/297210822_The_Oxford_Handbook_of_Work_and_Organization\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><u>David Collinson and Stephen Ackroyd, “Resistance, Misbehavior and Dissent”</u></a></p><p><a href=\"https://press.uchicago.edu/ucp/books/book/chicago/C/bo3774610.html\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Dorinne K. Kondo, Crafting Selves: Power, Gender, and Discourses of Identity in a Japanese Workplace</a></p><p><br></p><p>We are Craig Gent, a writer and researcher living in Leeds, and<a href=\"https://sarahljaffe.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>&nbsp;⁠Sarah Jaffe⁠</strong></a>, a journalist and author based in London.</p><p><br></p><p>Buy Craig's Book: <a href=\"https://www.versobooks.com/products/2958-cyberboss?srsltid=AfmBOopgqob5MW3Rm5d0L_X6dEJlkYKDmvV-KQUdF_RtHooAi5bAnDVV\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Cyberboss</strong></a></p><p>Buy Sarah's Book: <a href=\"https://bookshop.org/a/1518/9781541703490\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>From the Ashes</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>You can send us your questions at&nbsp;<a href=\"https://⁠www.askmeanything.cc/heartreacts⁠.\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>⁠www.askmeanything.cc/heartreacts⁠.</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>This episode was produced by, well, us! We apologize for any inconsistencies in audio quality. If you liked it and want to help keep us going, and help us improve our recording process, you can support us at<a href=\"https://patreon.com/HeartReacts%E2%81%A0.\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>&nbsp;⁠</strong></a><a href=\"https://patreon.com/HeartReacts⁠\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>patreon.com/HeartReacts⁠</strong></a><a href=\"https://patreon.com/HeartReacts%E2%81%A0.\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>.</strong></a>&nbsp;You can subscribe to the show wherever you get podcasts, and please do rate us on those podcast apps!</p>","author_name":"Craig Gent and Sarah Jaffe"}