{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/65f51da78c14020018575c35/681d035924b1daf01a8034f7?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Episode 31: 5 Essentials for Lifelong Intimacy (feat. Corina)","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/65f51da78c14020018575c35/1747011377012-a4ad07a9-a060-40fa-bbbe-4add7a25a86d.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>Happy Monday, readers! Today, Jake and Brooke are joined by Corina (host of \"Lessons from the Couch\") to talk about love, intimacy, marriage - and how James Dobson gets it all wrong. Things get wild when 3 therapists talk shit about another clinician. You know us, famous for getting wild on this blog.</p><p><br></p><p>Listen to \"Lessons from the Couch\" wherever you get your podcasts!</p><p><br></p><p>Book referrals:</p><ul><li>\"<a href=\"https://bookshop.org/p/books/eight-dates-john-gottman/16051880?ean=9781523504466&amp;next=t\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">8 Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love</a>\" by Drs. John and Julie Gottman</li><li>\"<a href=\"https://bookshop.org/p/books/come-as-you-are-revised-and-updated-the-surprising-new-science-that-will-transform-your-sex-life-emily-nagoski/15822177?ean=9781982165314&amp;next=t\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Come As You Are</a>\" by Dr. Emily Nagoski</li><li>\"<a href=\"https://bookshop.org/p/books/hold-me-tight-seven-conversations-for-a-lifetime-of-love-sue-johnson/109643?ean=9780316113007&amp;next=t\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Hold me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love</a>\" by Dr. Sue Johnson</li><li>\"<a href=\"https://bookshop.org/p/books/how-not-to-hate-your-husband-after-kids-jancee-dunn/111141?ean=9780316267090&amp;next=t\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids</a>\" by Jancee Dunn</li></ul><p><br></p><p>References:</p><p>Brittle, Z. (2015, July 30). Committment. <em>The Gottman Institue</em>. <a href=\"https://www.gottman.com/blog/commitment/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.gottman.com/blog/commitment/</a></p><p>Carothers, Bobbi and Harry Reis. “Men and Women Are from Earth: Examining the Latent Structure of Gender,” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 104, no. 2 (2013). </p><p>Gaspard, T. (2019, April 24). What to Do if You Don’t Trust Each Other. <em>The Gottman Institute</em>. <a href=\"https://www.gottman.com/blog/what-to-do-if-you-dont-trust-each-other/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.gottman.com/blog/what-to-do-if-you-dont-trust-each-other/</a></p><p>George, M. B. (2025, February 5). What Do Trust and Commitment Look Like in a Relationship? <em>The Gottman Institute</em>. <a href=\"https://www.gottman.com/blog/what-does-trust-and-commitment-look-like-in-a-relationship/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.gottman.com/blog/what-does-trust-and-commitment-look-like-in-a-relationship/</a></p><p>James, D., &amp; Drakich, J. (1993). Understanding gender differences in amount of talk: A critical review of research. In D. Tannen (Ed.),&nbsp;<em>Gender and conversational interaction</em>&nbsp;(pp. 281–312). Oxford University Press. </p><p><em>What is the Sound Relationship House​​? </em>(2020, November 30). The Gottman Institute. <a href=\"https://www.gottman.com/blog/what-is-the-sound-relationship-house/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.gottman.com/blog/what-is-the-sound-relationship-house/</a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):</p><p>https://uppbeat.io/t/mood-maze/trendsetter</p><p>License code: 9OT2MTBHWWSRZP5S</p>","author_name":"Jake & Brooke"}