{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/65977fdfbb77980017a7fbde/6a90236ec36cbadbe79f1c23?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Are You Really Ready for the Relationship You Say You Want?","description":"<p>You want a relationship. You want to meet someone. You want to share your life with a partner. But what if a part of you is also doing everything it can to protect the life you already have?</p><p><br></p><p>I've been talking with several single women who deeply want a relationship, yet they're carrying beliefs like I'm too old, I'm not good enough, or I'm not sure I'm worthy of a healthy relationship. And sometimes the story goes even deeper. Maybe you love your freedom. Maybe you don't want your peace disrupted. Maybe you've created a life you genuinely enjoy and aren't sure how another person would fit into it.</p><p><br></p><p>So how do you know whether you're truly ready for the relationship you're asking for?</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, I explore the hidden reasons we can want something consciously while another part of us may be protecting us from having it. I also share some of the personal work I've done around this and what I've noticed changing as I've become more available and willing to take action. And if you've ever wondered whether you're not finding the right person or whether there's something within you that needs to shift first, I think this conversation will give you something to think about.</p><p><br></p><p>Because sometimes the question isn't \"Why haven't I found my person?\" It's \"Am I actually making room for the relationship I say I want?\"</p><p><br></p><p><strong>In This Episode</strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li>Why wanting a relationship doesn't always mean we're ready to have one</li><li>The hidden \"secondary gains\" that can keep us from getting what we say we want</li><li>How protecting your peace and freedom can affect your openness to a relationship</li><li>Why the right relationship doesn't have to mean giving up the freedom you've created</li><li>How fear and safety can influence the changes we say we want</li><li>Why creating a healthy relationship may require stepping into a new identity</li><li>The importance of getting clear about what you actually want in a relationship</li><li>What changed for me when I became more available and willing to take action</li><li>An introduction to my four-week Get Soulmate Ready program</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Best Moments</strong></p><p>“There is a reason underneath why we’re not getting what we say we want, because we might not really want it.”</p><p>“With the right person, they can contribute to your peace. They don't have to disturb your peace.”</p><p>“We start with actual awareness, because if things are in your blind spot, you can't see them. And what you can't see, you can't solve for.”</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect With Me</strong></p><p>If you're ready for more than just hoping you'll meet the right person, I'd love to help you <strong>Get Soulmate Ready</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p>I'm opening a small four-week group for 10 courageous women who are ready to look at what's been holding them back, get clear about what they truly want, and take action toward creating space for a healthy relationship.</p><p><br></p><p>If you're curious, send me a DM @createlifeyourway in Instagram and I'll send you the details.</p><p><br></p><p>Website | www.thereikihealingcoach.com</p><p>Instagram | @sophia_i_got_ig</p><p>Instagram | @createlifeyourway</p><p>Facebook | www.facebook.com/sophia.e.754</p><p>LinkedIn | Sophia Elcock</p>","author_name":"Sophia Elcock"}