{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/65977fdfbb77980017a7fbde/6a5869fde743c6980024c5fb?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"3 Tips to Stop People Pleasing (Boundaries vs. Rules Explained)","description":"<p>Saying yes when you want to say no isn't kindness, it's a pattern. And it's costing you your time, your trust in yourself, and your own needs. Today I'm breaking that pattern down.</p><p><br></p><p>Because it's been a summer of reschedules on my end, you're hearing from me solo today, and I'm giving you three tips for overcoming people pleasing that go beyond just \"learn to say no.\"</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, I walk through how to actually catch yourself mid people-please, the real difference between a boundary and a rule, and why most people pleasers have completely lost touch with their own needs. I also get into why constant apologizing is quietly wrecking your credibility.</p><p><br></p><p>If you've ever said yes and immediately regretted it, or you're the \"strong one\" nobody checks on, this one's for you.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>TOPICS DISCUSSED:</strong></p><ul><li>Recognizing people pleasing in the moment: the pause before the yes</li><li>Why letting your yeses mean yes and your nos mean no builds trust with others and with yourself</li><li>The real difference between a boundary and a rule</li><li>How to identify your own needs after years of putting them last</li><li>Giving yourself permission to rest without earning it first</li><li>Bonus tip: why over-apologizing undermines the apologies that actually matter</li></ul><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><strong>BEST MOMENTS:</strong></p><p><em>\"Let your yeses truly be yeses and let your nos truly be nos.\"</em></p><p><em>\"You don't have to earn rest.\"</em></p><p><em>\"If you can apologize and then change that behavior, your apology is genuine, and that builds trust.\"</em></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with Sophia</strong></p><ul><li>Website | <a href=\"http://www.thereikihealingcoach.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">&nbsp;www.thereikihealingcoach.com&nbsp;</a></li><li>Instagram | @sophia_i_got_ig</li><li>Instagram | <a href=\"http://instagram.com/createlifeyourway\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@createlifeyourway</a></li><li>Facebook | <a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/sophia.e.754?mibextid=YMEMSu\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.facebook.com/sophia.e.754</a></li><li>LinkedIn | <a href=\"http://linkedin.com/in/sophia-elcock-b1941b5\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Sophia Elcock</a></li></ul><p><br></p>","author_name":"Sophia Elcock"}