{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/655148df2861630012a1d01b/6985e53be4c954d6d902f912?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"How to communicate well: interpersonally, in teams, and on stage","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/655148df2861630012a1d01b/1770460713377-e2cc9f40-0d92-431f-b101-7469f41c7556.jpeg?height=200","description":"<h2>Links</h2><p><br></p><ul><li><a href=\"https://tej.as/codecrafters\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">CodeCrafters (Sponsor)</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VQKMoT-6XSg\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Steve Jobs iPhone Introduction (2007)</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vhh_GeBPOhs\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Steve Ballmer \"Developers\"</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_aGbdni7QNs\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Bill Clinton \"I did not have sexual relations\"</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ONlLvZWXv1Y\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Tejas's First Talk (JSConf EU)</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Urm4xbw4RA\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Tejas at React Summit (The \"Sweaty Room\" Talk)</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_may_shape_who_you_are\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Amy Cuddy's Power Posing TED Talk</a></li><li><a href=\"https://tej.as/podcast/ep/diazno-how-to-unlock-creativity-taste-and-leadership\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Diazno on ConTejas</a></li><li><a href=\"https://courses.media.mit.edu/2004fall/mas921/Ambady%20Rosenthal%201992.pdf\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">\"Thin Slicing\" (Ambady &amp; Rosenthal)</a></li><li><a href=\"https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1967-10403-001\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Mehrabian's 7-38-55 Rule (Original Paper)</a></li><li><a href=\"https://richardepetty.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/1986-advances-pettycacioppo.pdf\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Elaboration Likelihood Model (Petty &amp; Cacioppo)</a></li><li><a href=\"https://eclass.uth.gr/modules/document/file.php/PRE_P_122/%CE%98%CE%B5%CF%89%CF%81%CE%AF%CE%B5%CF%82%20%CE%BC%CE%AC%CE%B8%CE%B7%CF%83%CE%B7%CF%82%20%CE%BA%CE%B1%CE%B9%20%CE%B3%CE%BD%CF%89%CF%83%CF%84%CE%B9%CE%BA%CE%AD%CF%82%20%CE%B8%CE%B5%CF%89%CF%81%CE%AF%CE%B5%CF%82%20---%20%CE%95%CE%BA%CF%80%CE%B1%CE%B9%CE%B4%CE%B5%CF%85%CF%84%CE%B9%CE%BA%CF%8C%CF%82%20%CF%83%CF%87%CE%B5%CE%B4%CE%B9%CE%B1%CF%83%CE%BC%CF%8C%CF%82/Richard%20E.%20Mayer-Multimedia%20Learning-Cambridge%20University%20Press%20%282009%29.pdf\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Cognitive Load &amp; Multimedia Learning (Mayer/Wiley)</a></li><li><a href=\"https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/11079236/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Narrative transportation</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychology/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2019.00488/full\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Exposure Therapy for Public Speaking (Frontiers)</a></li><li><a href=\"https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10741869/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Breathing &amp; Physiological Sigh (PMC)</a></li><li><a href=\"https://philpapers.org/rec/ERITRO-4\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Deliberate practice</a></li><li><a href=\"https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32038429/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Feedback</a></li><li><a href=\"https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16719566/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Spacing + retrieval practice</a></li></ul><p><br></p><h2>Summary</h2><p><br></p><p>In this episode, we're doing something different. Instead of analyzing code, we're analyzing the science of communication. I've spoken on hundreds of stages, from massive conferences to small, sweaty rooms, and I've learned that great speakers aren't born—they're built. We're going to dismantle the \"talent\" myth and replace it with a repeatable system. I'll walk you through the three levers of connection (Clarity, Trust, Energy), debunk the famous 7-38-55 rule, and give you practical frameworks like the \"4 L's of Listening\" and the \"4 C's of Storytelling.\" Whether you're an engineer trying to get buy-in for a refactor or a founder pitching a VC, this is how you make your ideas inevitable.</p><p><br></p><h2>Chapters</h2><p><br></p><p>0:00:00 Intro</p><p>0:03:00 The Steve Jobs &amp; Obama Standard</p><p>0:07:37 The 3 Levers: Clarity, Trust, Energy</p><p>0:10:33 Why Communication Fails (A Quick Diagnostic)</p><p>0:16:16 Debunking the 7-38-55 Rule (Mehrabian)</p><p>0:25:21 The 4 L's of Listening: Listen, Loop, Label, Lead</p><p>0:36:55 The One-Sentence Thesis</p><p>0:44:54 How to Change Minds (Elaboration Likelihood Model)</p><p>0:57:15 High Stakes vs. Low Energy: Reading the Room</p><p>1:03:00 Storytelling: The 4 C's (Context, Conflict, Choice, Change)</p><p>1:13:57 Delivery: Removing Fluff &amp; Cognitive Load</p><p>1:21:00 Voice Control: Pace and Emphasis</p><p>1:24:40 Gestures: The \"Check the Floor\" Mental Model</p><p>1:30:56 Managing Nerves: Power Posing &amp; Reappraisal</p><p>1:44:40 The 7-Day Action Plan</p>","author_name":"Tejas Kumar"}