{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6543e01cc9f8f800117189dc/68025709f4bf76eb41c74977?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"048 - A day without Instagram - Ruby Rare","description":"<p>What if we all quit watching influencers and met to discuss sex instead?</p><p><br></p><p>My guest in this episode is Ruby Rare, who has a bone to pick with the internet. She’s built a huge online audience for her work as a sex educator, author, broadcaster, and public speaker. Ruby’s voice on sex and relationships is essential for our times, and it’s great that people can hear and see her ideas about sex online. But recently she’s been wondering: what if we turned away from our phones?</p><p><br></p><p>Ruby and I had a meandering but fun conversation about the way the form of social media can pervert good messages about polyamory. Her answer for how to build a world of free sex is to put down our phones, get out of the house, and meet in town for a chat instead. I think you’ll really enjoy listening to Ruby make her case!</p><p><br></p><p>Ruby’s book <a href=\"https://www.gaystheword.co.uk/product-page/the-non-monogamy-playbook-by-ruby-rare\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The Non-Monogamy Playbook</a> is out now, and it’s fab.</p><p><br></p><p>A transcript of this episode is available on <a href=\"https://open.substack.com/pub/freesex/p/a-day-without-instagram-ruby-rare?r=b8lo5&amp;utm_campaign=post&amp;utm_medium=web&amp;showWelcomeOnShare=true\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">freesex.substack.com</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Hosted, produced and edited by Adam Zmith</p><p>Music: Translife by <a href=\"https://soundcloud.com/othonmusic\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Othon</a></p><p>Artwork: photo of Borneo mealworm by @DamasterCarabus / design by Adam Zmith and Rebecka Öberg</p><p>Executive Producer: Tash Walker</p><p>An <a href=\"http://auntnell.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Aunt Nell</a> Production</p>","author_name":"Adam Zmith | Aunt Nell"}