{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6543e01cc9f8f800117189dc/679b70569bbbbb6213453e8d?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"039 - No normal - Silva Neves","description":"<p>How can we flip the script on what sex and relationships can be?</p><p><br></p><p>My guest in this episode is <a href=\"https://silvaneves.co.uk/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Silva Neves</a>, who is a psychosexual and relationships psychotherapist. Silva sees all sorts of clients with different challenges to do with sex and relationships, so he’s a fascinating person to talk to about free sex. His big idea is that we need to know ourselves without the influences of society.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>That’s a hard task, of course! But Silva broke it down for me. We talked about the power of films and stories, the question of what’s ‘natural’ when it comes to sex and relationships, and even how to resist answering the question ‘So when are you going to get married?’</p><p><br></p><p>A transcript of this episode is available on <a href=\"https://open.substack.com/pub/freesex/p/no-normal-silva-neves?r=b8lo5&amp;utm_campaign=post&amp;utm_medium=web&amp;showWelcomeOnShare=true\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">freesex.substack.com</a>.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Hosted, produced and edited by Adam Zmith</p><p>Music: Translife by <a href=\"https://soundcloud.com/othonmusic\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Othon</a></p><p>Artwork: photo of Borneo mealworm by @DamasterCarabus / design by Adam Zmith and Rebecka Öberg</p><p>Executive Producer: Tash Walker</p><p>An <a href=\"http://auntnell.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Aunt Nell</a> Production</p>","author_name":"Adam Zmith | Aunt Nell"}