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This week we’re talking about living your future, dream life right now, Wintering, snow days, and… my 2026 surgery goals (yes, the tits are coming).
But the heart of this episode comes from an amazing question I was asked by a woman in the audience at my Birmingham event:
“When you’re stuck between two decisions and you can’t choose… what do you do?”
Because this kind of stuckness, deliberating, debating, thinking in circles energy? It is a HUGE energy leak & we’ve all been there.
Do I stay in this job or leave?
Do I move city or stay put?
Is this relationship right?
What is the “right” next chapter?
That stuck energy can absolutely paralyse you.
THE TWO-PART SOLUTION
PART ONE: Bring the focus back to YOU
When you don’t know the big answer yet, redirect the energy.
You might not know:
So start there.
Start with what you do know.
Pour your energy into strengthening YOU instead of obsessing over the decision.
PART TWO: What do you actually want from the change?
Instead of obsessing over the label (“new job,” “new city,” “new partner”), ask:
How would my daily or weekly life actually change?
And then ask the golden question:
What elements of that dream life can I have RIGHT NOW, where I am?
THE TWO RESULTS
1️⃣ You start LIVING your future life now which attracts more of it
You can’t manifest a joyful, full, creative, connected, healthy life while living like a drained shell of yourself waiting for a sign.
Manifestation requires ACTION and (yes) a bit of delulu energy.
2️⃣ You realise you can experience so many parts of your dream life in your CURRENT reality
Suddenly the “big decision” matters less.
Because you’re already building a life that feels good now.
Live the life you want before it arrives - and you’ll be shocked at how fast it finds you.
Thank you so much for listening, find me on the gram @francescaamber & @lawofattractionchangedmylife
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See you next week,
Fran xxx
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