{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6515527d3d898a0011b410e3/6a653c57a7fbf9da14b5759a?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"105 - I Don't Know What To Do.   Finding Clarity When You Love Someone With Addiction","description":"<p>One of the most common things I hear from partners and family members is...</p><p><br></p><p><strong>\"I don't know what to do anymore.\"</strong></p><p><br></p><p>If you've ever found yourself wondering:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>Should I stay or leave?</li><li>How do I support someone with addiction?</li><li>What boundaries should I set?</li><li>Should I tell the kids?</li><li>How do I know if I'm doing the right thing?</li></ul><p><br></p><p>...this episode is for you.</p><p><br></p><p>Living alongside addiction is exhausting. You're often carrying the emotional weight of the family, trying to protect your children, making impossible decisions, and second-guessing yourself every step of the way.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, I share why feeling confused doesn't mean you're weak or incapable. It often means you've been carrying far too much for far too long.</p><p><br></p><p>We'll talk about:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>Why \"I don't know what to do\" is such a common experience</li><li>Decision fatigue and emotional overwhelm</li><li>Why clarity feels impossible when you're in survival mode</li><li>The hidden impact of hypervigilance</li><li>How to stop trying to solve the next ten years</li><li>A gentler question that can help you find your next step</li><li><br></li></ul><p>If you've been searching for answers while supporting a loved one with alcohol or drug addiction, I hope this episode helps you feel a little less alone.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><h2>🌿 Looking for more support?</h2><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><h3>👉<a href=\"https://amanda-lockyer.mykajabi.com/discovery-to-recovery-workshop\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Discovery to Recovery</a></h3><p>If this episode resonated and you're wondering, <strong>\"Where do I even begin?\"</strong>, <a href=\"https://amanda-lockyer.mykajabi.com/discovery-to-recovery-workshop\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Discovery to Recovery</strong></a> is your first step out of chaos and into feeling steady.</p><p><br></p><p>Designed for partners and family members affected by addiction, this self-paced programme helps you move out of survival mode, understand what's happening, quiet the overwhelm, and begin making small choices and decisions from a place of clarity instead of fear.</p><p><br></p><p>If you're feeling stuck, constantly overthinking, or unsure what to do next, this is where I'd encourage you to start.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><h3>👉<a href=\"https://amanda-lockyer.mykajabi.com/recovery-reclaimed\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Recovery Reclaimed</a></h3><p><br></p><p>If you've already begun that journey and you're ready for more practical tools, deeper understanding, and ongoing support, <a href=\"https://amanda-lockyer.mykajabi.com/recovery-reclaimed\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Recovery Reclaimed</strong></a> is your next step.</p><p>Together we'll help you strengthen your boundaries, rebuild trust in yourself, gain greater clarity, and move forward with confidence—regardless of what your loved one chooses.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><h3>👉 <a href=\"https://www.addictionmakesthree.com/programwaitlist\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Pathway to Wellness</a></h3><p>If you're ready for personalised coaching, live support, and a community of people who truly understand, you can join the <a href=\"https://www.addictionmakesthree.com/programwaitlist\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Pathway to Wellness </strong>waitlist.</a></p><p>This is my signature coaching programme, designed to help you reconnect with yourself, create lasting change, and build a life that no longer revolves around addiction.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><h3>👉 <a href=\"https://addictionmakesthree.as.me/friendlychat\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Not sure where to begin?</a></h3><p>If you're unsure which path is right for you, you're always welcome to<a href=\"https://addictionmakesthree.as.me/friendlychat\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> <strong>book in a friendly chat</strong></a><strong> </strong>to talk it through.</p><p><br></p><p>It's a private, no-pressure conversation where I'll listen to what's happening for you, help you make sense of where you are, and recommend what I believe would be your best next step.</p><p><br></p><p>You don't have to keep carrying this on your own.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p>","author_name":"Amanda Lockyer"}