{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/651250ce5e38910011b174b8/683acebf2780b226c7dc25ca?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"98: The Internet Told This Mum to Punish Her 10-Year-Old's Behaviour (SO Much Wrong!!!)","description":"<p>(🎁 Scroll down for my gift!! 🎁)</p><p><br></p><p>When a mum shared online that she blew up at her 10-year-old daughter, who then jumped out of the car in a crowded carpark, the comments went WILD.</p><p><br></p><p>Everyone flooded in with BAD ADVICE.</p><p><br></p><p>“Take her devices!” “Be stricter!” “Punish her for being disrespectful!”</p><p><br></p><p>Are we still in the 80's? Seems so.</p><p><br></p><p>In this video, I break down why that advice is not only unhelpful — but actually incredibly harmful for kids who are already struggling.</p><p><br></p><p>And it doesn't help the parent at all either!</p><p><br></p><p>This isn’t just about disrespect or screen time… it’s about what’s going on beneath the behaviour.</p><p><br></p><p>I’ll walk you through:</p><p><br></p><p>🧠 Why punishment-based advice (aka behaviourism) NEVER works — especially with neurodivergent kids</p><p>🧠 What your child’s “bad behaviour” is really telling you</p><p>🧠 How you can stay calm and connected when your child pushes your buttons</p><p>🧠 What I would have said to this mum if we were sitting down together over coffee</p><p><br></p><p>🎁 🎁 🎁 If you’re feeling reactive, overwhelmed or stuck in power struggles, check out my course From Reactive to Responsive Parenting — it’s made exactly for moments like these.</p><p><br></p><p>😇 Right now I'm gifting it to you for $17 instead of $97!!! Use code: PODCAST17</p><p>👉 <a href=\"https://stephaniepinto.systeme.io/fromreactivetoresponsivecheckout\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">ACCESS IT HERE</a></p><p><br></p><p>Or if you want 1:1 personalised support, I offer private coaching where we dive deep into your parenting patterns and create real change.</p><p>👉 <a href=\"www.stephaniepinto.com/coaching\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Find out more here</a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Prefer to watch? I upload my episodes to YouTube too, find this one <a href=\"https://youtu.be/MXPAubnqfVs\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">here.</a></p><p><br></p><p>You’re not alone, and you don’t have to parent the way the internet tells you to.</p><p><br></p><p>Steph xx</p><p><br></p><p>_________________________________________________________________________________</p><p><br></p><p>Follow me on Insta @emotionally.intelligent.parent</p><p><br></p><p>Have you joined my Facebook Group for parents? There are 130,000+ parents in the community! 🎉</p><p><a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/groups/letsraiseemotionallyintelligentkids\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">JOIN US HERE!</a></p><p><br></p><p>Hi! I’m an award-winning Emotional Intelligence parenting consultant, best-selling author and international speaker. I’m also a paediatric anxiety therapist and I love helping kids, parents and educators use emotional intelligence to become calmer, more connected and live happier lives!</p><p><br></p><p>Book a FREE 30 min consult with me to discuss coaching, support, collaborations or speaking engagements.</p><p><br></p><p>💡 Head to https://www.stephaniepinto.com/</p><p>Or stalk me on the socials...</p><p>Insta: https://www.instagram.com/emotionally.intelligent.parent/</p><p>FB: fb.com/stephpinto</p><p>FB Business: fb.com/stephaniepintoeqcoach</p>","author_name":"Stephanie Pinto"}