{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/64faf7220c337a0011e52bfd/68acb478e2f63983a7bc9262?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Important Things I Tell Myself After A Disastrous First Date","description":"<p>If you’ve ever left a first date feeling deflated, disappointed, or questioning if you’ll <em>ever</em> meet someone, this is for you.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>I dive into the exact things I tell myself after a disastrous first date: the reminders, re-frames, and confidence resets that stop me from spiralling into “I’m unlovable” territory. Dating is full of highs and lows, and one bad date doesn’t define your worth.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I share how I shift my mindset, process the frustration, and move forward with confidence (or take a break when I need to). Plus, I give some practical steps to help you reset and get back into a healthy dating headspace.</p><p><br></p><p>Whether your last date left you feeling flat, frustrated, or ready to delete the apps altogether, this episode will help you bounce back stronger.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Tune in now to hear:</strong></p><p><br></p><p>1. How I feel after a bad first date</p><p><br></p><p>2. What actually counts as a “bad” first date</p><p><br></p><p>3. Don't take a bad first date personally (you're not unlovable)</p><p><br></p><p>4. How to stop a bad date from making you spiral</p><p><br></p><p>5. Can this bad date teach me anything?</p><p><br></p><p>6. A bad date is just a bad date</p><p><br></p><p>7. Practical confidence resets after a disappointing date</p><p><br></p><p>8. Why it’s okay to take a break from dating</p><p><br></p><p>9. Happy Hour: I know I said I wouldn't try this but...</p><p><br></p><p>10. My dating update: Am I finally back on the apps?! </p><p><br></p><p>11. Your dating dilemma: “I went on a bad first date and now he’s asked me for a second - I feel guilty saying no, what should I do?”</p><p><br></p><p>🎥<a href=\"https://youtu.be/srb2XLa3kwQ\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> Watch the episode on YouTube</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Mentioned:</strong></p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"https://www.datewithconfidencepodcast.com/episodes/episode-08\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Important Things I Tell Myself Before A First Date</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.datewithconfidencepodcast.com/episodes/episode-13\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The ‘Near-Perfect’ Date That Became An Hilarious Nightmare</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.datewithconfidencepodcast.com/episodes/episode-22\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">He Asked Me To Send Photos And Lied About His Age</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.datewithconfidencepodcast.com/episodes/episode-72\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">This Is The Energy You Need To Take With You On A First Date</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Get Involved!</strong></p><p><br></p><p>You can contribute your stories to the Date with Confidence Podcast <a href=\"https://datewithconfidence.com/contribute\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">here</a>. Share your best or worst dating stories, your biggest icks, dating tips you think everyone should know or ask me anything about my dating life or a burning question you need an answer for.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Support The Date with Confidence Podcast</strong></p><p><br></p><p>If you'd like to show your support for the podcast, you can do so in these ways:</p><p><br></p><p>1) Share the podcast with your friends</p><p><br></p><p>2) Leave me a review on iTunes stating what you love most about the podcast so more people can find it</p><p><br></p><p>3)<a href=\"https://buymeacoffee.com/rebeccalucyh\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> Buy me a coffee</a> to express your gratitude for the episodes if you found them helpful, inspiring or entertaining</p><p><br></p><p>Visit The Date with Confidence website<a href=\"https://datewithconfidencepodcast.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> here</a>. Follow your host Rebecca Hawkes on <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/yourconfident30s\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Instagram</a>.</p>","author_name":"Rebecca Hawkes"}