{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/64e6ea8f5294430011f7780b/6988b99a45f62cfe94922be4?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Rethinking Virginity, Sexiness and All the Ways We Make Love ","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/64e6ea8f5294430011f7780b/1770567990288-1a7d254b-eeee-479c-b4b3-0d209e2e01d3.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>On this episode of the podcast, Toshi spoke with Hollie McNish, an award-winning poet,&nbsp;writer&nbsp;and performer. Together they had a conversation Hollie’s latest book, ‘Virgin’.&nbsp;It's&nbsp;a six-letter word that holds such incredible power - the power to pressure, to judge, to harm, to praise, to profit, to punish. But virginity is also just a concept, a label that has been pressed upon people for centuries in&nbsp;numerous&nbsp;cultures worldwide. In ‘Virgin’,&nbsp;Hollie McNish unpicks the role this word has played in her own life, as well as others.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 – Intro&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>01:04 – Who’s Hollie McNish? – Why you need to know!&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>01:41 – What inspired Hollie to write ‘Virgin’?&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>05:29 –&nbsp;What’s virginity got to do with purple carrots?&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>08:22 –&nbsp;The problem with ‘body count’.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>12:54 –&nbsp;What does it mean to be sexy?&nbsp;</p><p>28:16<em>&nbsp;–&nbsp;</em>How media shapes&nbsp;the way we think,&nbsp;feel&nbsp;and see the world.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>34:11 –&nbsp;We can stop apologising!&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>41:07<em>&nbsp;–&nbsp;</em>Social&nbsp;media’s&nbsp;not all bad –&nbsp;here's&nbsp;why.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>45:43 – The&nbsp;ways&nbsp;we make love in real life.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>49:25 –&nbsp;Time to get comfortable talking about sex, and why.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>56:21 – Where to find Hollie and her work.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Check out Hollie here:</p><p>https://www.holliepoetry.com/</p><p>https://www.instagram.com/holliepoetry/?hl=en</p><p><br></p><p>Find 'Virgin' here:</p><p>https://www.bookbaruk.com/product-page/virgin-by-hollie-mcnish</p><p><br></p><p>-----------------&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Check out our books, 'How to talk with your kids about porn' and 'The Organ Education Forgot', available at <a href=\"https://www.sexinspace.com/books\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.sexinspace.com/books</a> to download or buy.&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Follow us here:&nbsp;</p><p><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/sexinspacedotcom\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.instagram.com/sexinspacedotcom</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href=\"https://www.tiktok.com/@sexinspacedotcom\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.tiktok.com/@sexinspacedotcom</a>&nbsp;</p><p><a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/sexinspacedotcom\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.facebook.com/sexinspacedotcom</a>&nbsp;</p><p>https://www.youtube.com/@sexinspace</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>For more info, check out our website at:&nbsp;</p><p><a href=\"https://www.sexinspace.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.sexinspace.com/</a>&nbsp;</p>","author_name":"Sex in Space"}