In this episode, Toshi spoke with Mistress Sofia, the UK’s oldest dominatrix. Together they had a conversation about what it means to be a dominatrix, how Mistress Sofia got into this work, common misconceptions and what she’s learned in her time being a dominatrix.
Check out more of Mistress Sofia here: https://www.mistress-sofia.co.uk/
Timestamps:
00:00 – Intro
00:47 – Who is Mistress Sofia?
01:20 – What does it mean to be a dominatrix?
02:12 – How did Mistress Sofia get started in this work?
04:05 – Why does Mistress Sofia not use the world ‘client’?
05:03 – How do people serve Mistress Sofia?
06:58 – Is Mistress Sofia a sex worker?
08:48 – “I always ask what their kinks are”
10:06 – Caning is not as simple as it looks
12:16 – For new dominatrixes: learn from Mistress Sofia
13:20 – What does it mean to be dominant?
14:58 – Mistress Sofia on confidence
16:24 – “You cannot do this for the money”
17:23 – What does Mistress Sofia love about her job?
19:13 – What is a lifestyle slave?
20:19 – When did Mistress Sofia realise she was dominant?
21:59 – Mistress Sofia’s message to women
23:14 – How does being 75 impact her work?
24:54 – Is seeing a dominatrix while you’re in a relationship considered cheating?
27:00 – Why seeing a dominatrix can be a kind of therapy
29:30 – Navigating shame
33:07 – Final thoughts
34:58 – Mistress Sofia’s thoughts on findoms
36:16 – Why Mistress Sofia doesn’t work with women
36:44 – Goals for the future
37:59 – Where to find more of Mistress Sofia
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