{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/64afeee1a533d90011000f79/6500f432d570420011d0e61c?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"The 80/20 rule: Do women only date 'up'?","description":"<p>The manosphere would have you believe that women can't escape their 'hypergamous nature' - they always seek out men of higher status as partners. But what if it's more complicated than that? Spoiler alert - it is. Aileen takes Dan on a tour of the rhetoric and the research. </p><p><br></p><p>Manosphere: Debunked is hosted by Aileen Barratt (<a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/tindertranslators/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@tindertranslators</a>) and Dan, the anonymous psychologist (<a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/the_nice_ish_psychologist/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@the_nice_ish_psychologist</a>), on Instagram.</p><p><br></p><p>Aileen's book,&nbsp;<em>Tinder Translator: An A-Z of Modern Misogyny</em>, is available&nbsp;<a href=\"https://lnk.to/TinderTranslator\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">here</a>.</p><p>Visit The Nice-ish Rambling Substack page&nbsp;<a href=\"https://theniceishpsychologist.substack.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">here</a>.</p><p><br></p><p>References from this week's episode: </p><p><a href=\"https://www.waterstones.com/book/men-who-hate-women/laura-bates/9781398504653\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Men Who Hate Women by Laura Bates | Waterstones</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/shorts/SZ04TWI2oNE\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Any good dating app stories? #profg #scottgalloway #dating #hinge #tinder #raya #shorts - YouTube</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N7LN14IpVy0\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Jordan Peterson - Female Hypergamy and its Impact on Human Evolution - YouTube</a></p><p>Manosphere hypergamy chart: <a href=\"https://twitter.com/RationalMale/status/1050411628406104064?s=20\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://twitter.com/RationalMale/status/1050411628406104064?s=20</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.waterstones.com/book/dataclysm/christian-rudder/9780007494439\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Dataclysm by Christian Rudder | Waterstones</a></p><p>Aileen’s Instagram post on hypergamy has the Dataclysm chart, view it here: <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/p/Cp8NA6erd0Z/?igshid=NzZhOTFlYzFmZQ%3D%3D\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">&nbsp;A deep-ish dive into the the concept of \"female hypergamy\", which is largely the… | Instagram</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=bill+maher+scott+galloway+&amp;view=detail&amp;mid=1D0B0C2E0299F8D9C5281D0B0C2E0299F8D9C528&amp;FORM=VIRE\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Why Are Men in Crisis? | Real Time with Bill Maher (HBO) - Bing video</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.cairn-int.info/article-E_POPU_1504_0705--fewer-singles-among-highly-educated.htm#:~:text=Female%20hypergamy%2C%20defined%20as%20the,is%20a%20widely%20observed%20phenomenon.\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Fewer Singles among Highly Educated Women. A Gender Reversal of Hypergamy across Cohorts in France | Cairn International Edition (cairn-int.info)</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.reuters.com/article/us-usa-health-sex-idUSKBN23J2LI\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Young U.S. men having a lot less sex in the 21st century, study shows | Reuters</a></p><p><a href=\"https://ifstudies.org/blog/whither-hypergamy\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Whither Hypergamy? | Institute for Family Studies (ifstudies.org)</a></p><p><a href=\"https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/jomf.12372\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Gender Asymmetry in Educational and Income Assortative Marriage - Qian - 2017 - Journal of Marriage and Family - Wiley Online Library</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.researchgate.net/publication/348834245_Educational_Assortative_Mating_and_the_Decline_of_Hypergamy_in_27_European_Countries_An_Examination_of_Trends_Through_Cohorts\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">(PDF) Educational Assortative Mating and the Decline of Hypergamy in 27 European Countries</a></p>","author_name":"Aileen and Dan"}