{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/643789a2ba30d20010916124/6a6b88cd8effb6fbbef6fd62?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"152 You Can't Trick a Nervous System","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/643789a2ba30d20010916124/1785432252340-4ba0c73b-31c2-4326-b302-024235f1c3e3.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>My cats Mac &amp; Cheese (see episode pic) have been having a hard time. I've learned a lot observing their reactive nervous systems because it's so easy to feel compassion for them.</p><p>This episode uses that extended metaphor to also talk about when AuDHD nervous systems feel reactive, including with meltdowns that can include anger or violence. Depending on how much reactivity is affecting your life, it may require professional help. </p><p>No matter what, you deserve compassion &lt;3 </p><p><br></p><p>Content note: episode mentions violence and medication</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Resources for anger and reactive nervous systems:</strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href=\"https://www.prosperhealth.io/blog/how-to-deal-with-autism-anger-in-adults\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Autistic anger</a> (including therapy suggestions)</li><li>Resource for <a href=\"https://reframingautism.org.au/all-about-autistic-meltdowns-a-guide-for-allies/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">non-autistic folks to understand meltdowns</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.drlanaferris.com/blogs/audhd-emotional-regulation-guide\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">AuDHD emotional regulation</a> (mentions RSD, justice sensitivity, alexithymia)</li><li><a href=\"https://www.additudemag.com/anger-issues-adhd-emotional-dysregulation/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">ADHD rage &amp; anger</a> (note: I didn't find many AuDHD-specific resources on this topic - plz share if you have good ones!)</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Crisis Resources:</strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li><a href=\"https://chat.988lifeline.org/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">USA-based anonymous crisis chat</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.therapyroute.com/article/helplines-suicide-hotlines-and-crisis-lines-from-around-the-world\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">International crisis lines</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.helpguide.org/find-help\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Various types of crisis resources in about 10 countries</a></li></ul><p><br></p><p><br></p><h3><strong>AuDHD Flourishing resources:</strong></h3><ol><li><a href=\"https://docs.google.com/document/d/1bPmFZPUdE-3ZZQXqEs78muJ-dHy7bCa0BZ8mUZhWBPE/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Transcript</strong> Doc</a> (often a few weeks behind, but we do catch up!)</li><li><a href=\"https://mattia.ck.page/a6b7c9bf09\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Mattia's <strong>Newsletter</strong></a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/mattia/about\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Like Your Brain</a>&nbsp;<strong>community</strong> space (Patreon/Discord)</li></ol>","author_name":"Mattia Maurée"}