{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/643789a2ba30d20010916124/69da6a0bd3f0dd774736b68b?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"138 Your Money Big Picture","description":"<p>I would guess that <strong><em>most </em>AuDHDers struggle with money in one way or another</strong>. Saving or planning for the future can be particularly difficult to emotionally attach to in the same way we connect with wanting something in the present moment. </p><p><br></p><p>I use several tools to stay emotionally connected to my money big picture, and spoiler alert none of them is a budget: </p><ul><li>tracking all income closely </li><li>a multi-tab finances overview spreadsheet that includes monthly income over time + a debt tab with all monthly payments</li><li>calculating Net Worth* monthly (using a spreadsheet I found online) </li></ul><p><strong>While a strict budget has never worked for me, staying attached to my overall money picture has been incredibly helpful. </strong></p><p><br></p><p>The latter part of the episode shares <strong>two tools for anxiety around money</strong>: </p><ol><li>@12:14 - Reversing the spin (works for any spinning sensation, and any type of anxiety) </li><li>@20:23 - \"Throwing\" the task to the horizon, then bringing it back in safe ways. Repeat until feeling more neutral</li></ol><p><br></p><p>p.s. doing #2 above while recording actually helped me get started on my taxes, which I submitted six days early (possibly a personal record??) </p><p><br></p><p>*yes this is a terrible term</p><p><br></p><h3><strong>AuDHD Flourishing resources:</strong></h3><ol><li><a href=\"https://docs.google.com/document/d/13cWttVht-bxKyxc6nCJq4-0SL5zoQVvDIM22RFnaBP0/edit?usp=sharing\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Transcript</strong> Doc</a> (often a few weeks behind, but we do catch up!)</li><li><a href=\"https://mattia.ck.page/a6b7c9bf09\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Mattia's <strong>Newsletter</strong></a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/mattia/about\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Like Your Brain</a>&nbsp;<strong>community</strong> space (Patreon/Discord)</li></ol><p><br></p>","author_name":"Mattia Maurée"}