{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/643789a2ba30d20010916124/68bc55f4b306fbb419935098?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"111 Shame Wrecks Identity","description":"<p>Chronic shame makes us feel all kinds of terrible things that often are the triggers that send people to therapy.</p><p>It's caused in part by relational rupture without repair, especially as an infant and child.</p><p>While there's no quick fix, recognizing the signs and beginning to gently work with it does help over time.</p><p><br></p><p><em>This is episode 10 of a series of 10 that started with </em><a href=\"https://www.audhdflourishing.com/podcast/episode/63275562/102-audhd-therapy-that-works-with-joe-sosta\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><em>102 AuDHD Therapy That Works with Joe Sosta</em>﻿</a></p><p><em>I'm working on some more materials to pull all these episodes together in a useful way and will add that here when they're done! </em></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Crisis Resources:</strong></p><ul><li><a href=\"https://chat.988lifeline.org/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">USA-based anonymous crisis chat</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.therapyroute.com/article/helplines-suicide-hotlines-and-crisis-lines-from-around-the-world\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">International crisis lines</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.helpguide.org/find-help\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Various types of crisis resources in about 10 countries</a></li><li>My Medium article, <a href=\"https://medium.com/p/3c024e9d6586\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">\"Please Stay, We Need You\"</a></li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Mentioned in episode: </strong></p><ul><li>Book <a href=\"https://amzn.to/4niyVpQ\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Understanding and Treating Chronic Shame: Healing Right Brain Relational Trauma</a> (I recommend this 2nd edition, affiliate link)</li><li>Whack-a-Mole Workshop <a href=\"https://www.canva.com/design/DAGxMBplPhE/bZ2iHTiM8qjGGQMz8fGPow/view?utlId=h408f8c59c6\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">slides/notes</a> and <a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/posts/137730065\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">recordings</a> (latter is free &amp; requires free login; a downloadable PDF is also available there on Patreon)</li></ul><p><br></p><h2><strong>AuDHD Flourishing resources:</strong></h2><ol><li><a href=\"https://docs.google.com/document/d/13cWttVht-bxKyxc6nCJq4-0SL5zoQVvDIM22RFnaBP0/edit?usp=sharing\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Transcript Doc</a></li><li><a href=\"https://mattia.ck.page/a6b7c9bf09\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Mattia's Newsletter</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/mattia/about\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Like Your Brain</a>&nbsp;community space (Patreon/Discord)</li></ol>","author_name":"Mattia Maurée"}