{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/642a979e13df9d0011c0d667/6a845f939cb9faa61adb006e?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Why Your Students Aren't Listening to You","description":"<p><strong>DESCRIPTION:</strong></p><p>In this episode, Tem explores what it really means to create a safe classroom, and why the moments where students feel comfortable enough to let their personality shine are proof that safety, not strictness, is what builds trust. She shares real classroom stories and explains why shutting those moments down can do more harm than good. Tem breaks down how to hold high expectations and firm boundaries while still being human, humorous, and approachable, and why that balance takes time to build, especially for new and trainee teachers.</p><p>If you would like to enquire about trauma-informed training, please contact Tem at tem@helpingteachersthrive.com or book a call: https://calendly.com/tem-helpingteachersthrive/60&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p><strong>KEY TAKEAWAYS:</strong></p><ul><li>Students only show their personality once real trust has been established.</li><li>High expectations and personality aren't mutually exclusive. Strong boundaries and authentic humour can coexist in the same classroom.</li><li>Relationship-building takes time</li><li>Know your students well enough to joke appropriately. Humour only works safely once you understand a student well enough to avoid shame or escalation.</li><li>Boundaries must stay consistent even as warmth increases</li></ul><p><strong>BEST MOMENTS:</strong></p><p><em>\"That's because of the space that you have created for your students that has allowed them to feel that confident, allowed them to feel safe enough to be themselves.\"</em></p><p><em>\"Why shame that student in that moment when they're showing their personality?\"</em></p><p><em>\"It doesn't mean you can't be human. It doesn't mean that you can't bring your personality into lessons.\"</em></p><p><em>\"I want them to see my personality... Miss is human. Miss makes mistakes. Miss can have a laugh.\"</em></p><p><em>\"Always, always, always have expectations, high expectations in place... have boundaries in place and don't allow those boundaries to bend.\"</em></p><p><strong>VALUABLE RESOURCES:</strong></p><p>https://patreon.com/thehelpingteachersthrivehub?utm_medium=unknown&amp;utm_source=join_link&amp;utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&amp;utm_content=copyLink</p><p><strong>EPISODES TO CHECK OUT NEXT:</strong></p><p><a href=\"https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-power-of-positive-school-cultures-with-dr-jim-van-allan/id1681843058?i=1000651956328\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The Power Of Positive School Cultures With Dr Jim Van Allan</a></p><p><strong>ABOUT THE HOST:</strong></p><p>Since embarking on her teaching journey in 2009, Tem has been on a mission to empower students to reach their fullest potential. Specialising as a Secondary Physical Education Teacher, Tem also has experience in Special Educational Needs (SEN) as a class teacher in an SEN provision. With an unwavering commitment to helping students become the best versions of themselves, Tem believes in the power of education to shape not just academic prowess, but character and resilience. Having mentored numerous teachers throughout her career, she is not only shaping young minds but also nurturing the growth of those who guide them.</p><p><strong>ABOUT THE SHOW:</strong></p><p>The podcast for teachers of many years, trainee teachers or Early Career Teachers (ECTs). Join Tem as she delves into the diverse world of teaching, offering valuable insights, tips, and advice on a variety of teaching strategies to help teachers thrive as classroom practitioners.&nbsp;</p><p><strong>CONNECT &amp; CONTACT:&nbsp;</strong></p><p>Email: tem@helpingteachersthrive.com</p><p>Linktree:<a href=\"https://linktr.ee/temsteachingtips\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> https://linktr.ee/temsteachingtips</a></p><p>Instagram:<a href=\"http://instagram.com/temsteachingtips\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> instagram.com/temsteachingtips</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href=\"https://www.linkedin.com/in/tem-ezimokhai-23306a263\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">linkedin.com/in/tem-ezimokhai-23306a263</a><strong> </strong></p>","author_name":"Tem Ezimokhai"}