DESCRIPTION:
In this episode, Tem explores why behaviour policies on their own rarely lead to meaningful change in schools, and what actually makes the difference in creating calm, consistent and supportive classroom environments. Too often, schools invest time and energy into refining policies, tightening rules, or rewriting expectations, yet behaviour challenges persist. The missing link is rarely the policy itself, but how confidently and consistently staff are able to apply strategies in real classroom conditions. This conversation shifts the focus away from paperwork and towards practice. It highlights the importance of staff confidence, shared routines, leadership modelling, and ongoing coaching in building a culture where both students and teachers can thrive. Tem also unpacks the importance of regulation before consequence, the role of trauma-informed approaches, and why behaviour support must always keep the human needs of students at the centre.
If you are a teacher or school leader looking to reduce low-level disruption, strengthen consistency, and build a calmer learning environment, this episode offers a practical and grounded perspective on where real change begins.
If you would like to learn more about trauma informed practice and positive behaviour support training, feel free to book a complimentary call today: https://calendly.com/tem-helpingteachersthrive/60
KEY TAKEAWAYS:
BEST MOMENTS:
\"You can have the best behaviour policy in the world and behaviour may still be an issue in your schools.”
“Practice determines reality. What we do in practice has the biggest effect on improvements in behaviour in our schools, not what’s written on the policy.”
“Consistency comes from systems, not documents.”
“When we are in classrooms, we're under pressure in real time...the behaviour system will either work or fall apart.”
“Student will not learn from a consequence in that moment when they’re not within their window of tolerance.”
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ABOUT THE HOST:
Since embarking on her teaching journey in 2009, Tem has been on a mission to empower students to reach their fullest potential. Specialising as a Secondary Physical Education Teacher, Tem also has experience in Special Educational Needs (SEN) as a class teacher in an SEN provision. With an unwavering commitment to helping students become the best versions of themselves, Tem believes in the power of education to shape not just academic prowess, but character and resilience. Having mentored numerous teachers throughout her career, she is not only shaping young minds but also nurturing the growth of those who guide them.
ABOUT THE SHOW:
The podcast for teachers of many years, trainee teachers or Early Career Teachers (ECTs). Join Tem as she delves into the diverse world of teaching, offering valuable insights, tips, and advice on a variety of teaching strategies to help teachers thrive as classroom practitioners.
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