{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/63f742afd49c3c0011107136/6ae042c64a57212b64d0a0a7?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"He's Not Sure If It Was Sexual Abuse. Was It?","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/63f742afd49c3c0011107136/1793081347056-42f71f53-56c8-46ef-b657-e7c2c89e7980.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>Oli&#39;s original video - https://youtu.be/VS7BUoz0C5o?si=0wRa5kqRi5oPZdjm</p><p>Age of consent investigation - https://youtu.be/KuCg3UavKcg?si=3rx9540-ynB0B9-X</p><p><br></p><p>When Ollie was 13, he entered into a sexual &quot;relationship&quot; with an 18-year-old woman. Now in his 30s, he&#39;s still unsure whether what happened to him was sexual abuse.</p><p><br></p><p>Ollie describes a relationship in which they genuinely liked each other. He doesn&#39;t believe he was groomed or manipulated and he doesn&#39;t consider the woman an abuser.</p><p><br></p><p>But looking back, he recognises that he wasn&#39;t in a position to give informed consent.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, I watch and reflect on Ollie&#39;s story, exploring some difficult questions around childhood sexual abuse, consent, power dynamics and the way we understand our experiences as we grow older.</p><p><br></p><p>We also discuss how our reactions might change when the genders are reversed and how the woman&#39;s own experiences of childhood sexual abuse may have influenced her behaviour.</p><p><br></p><p>I&#39;d really like to hear your thoughts.</p><p><br></p><p>Do you consider what happened to Ollie sexual abuse? And does knowing the circumstances change how you feel about it?</p><p><br></p><p>Please share your thoughts in the comments. I welcome different perspectives and respectful discussion.</p><p><br></p><p>Below are my links </p><p><br></p><p>Website: https://jeremyindika.com </p><p>Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast </p><p>Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com </p><p><br></p><p>To support </p><p><br></p><p>Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com </p><p>Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay </p><p>Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/ </p><p><br></p><p>Social media </p><p><br></p><p>Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/ </p><p>Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1 </p><p>Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindika </p><p>X: https://x.com/jeremyindika </p><p>LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/ </p><p>YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndika </p><p>Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast </p><p><br></p><p>Something to Say links </p><p><br></p><p>Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/ </p><p>Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1 </p><p>LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1 </p><p>TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficial </p><p>YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficial </p><p>Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1</p>","author_name":"Jeremy Indika"}